Sasha Lessin, Ph. D.

TANTRA for ALL CHAKRAS: Guide to Ecstacy, Intimacy & Whoopie

Posted by on Jun 20, 2017 in Vision | 0 comments

By Sasha Lessin, Ph.D., Dean, & Janet Kira Lessin, Professor of Tantric Studies, School of Tantra   TANTRA for ALL CHAKRAS guides you through experiences that help you: * Love each other more and better * Open your energy vortexes (chakras) to each other * Share your diverse inner-voices * Learn what hurts and scares your Inner Kids * Discern when to lower your subself shields * Share vulnerability and connect with each other * Synergize your inner selves’ dance within and between you * Refine how you relate * Heal each other’s hearts * Encourage female ejaculation * Master male ejaculatory control Sample the Lessins’ tanta tips at https://www.facebook.com/groups/1777921672434541/ Get TANTRA for ALL CHAKRAS at Amazon.com; just click https://www.amazon.com/Tantra-Chakras-Sasha-Alex-Lessin/dp/1548102830/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1497955174&sr=8-1&keywords=Book+Tantra+for+all+Chakras+by+Lessin THE LESSINS: HOLISTIC-LOVING GURUS SASHA ALEX LESSIN, PH.D. (U.C.L.A.) taught Sex Education in the University of Hawaii School of Medicine, Leeward Community College and the Professional School for Psychological Studies; he taught Tantra at Maui Community College, World Polyamory Association & World Tantra Association conferences and at the School of Tantra on Maui and The Phoenix Goddess Temple. He served as Director of Counseling at the Waikiki Drug Center and has counseled relationships, guided spiritual journeywork and taught tantra for over forty years. JANET KIRA LESSIN, PTS, naturally tantric, joined Sasha as his co-teacher and presenter and together they developed, All-Chakra Tantra as Janet worked through her sexual abuse traumas and learned how to facilitate others’ reprogramming....

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Posted by on Jun 13, 2017 in Vision | 0 comments

Come Explore the Dynamic Combination of Tantric Empowerment! By School of Tantra’s Dr. Sasha and Janet with Ecstatic Hearts’ Melanie and Scott   Two amazing weekends in a combo package that has never been offered before. You may sign up for either individually.  However, they complement each other so nicely, we decided to give you an even deeper discount if you do them together.         Celebrate Sacred Sexuality Dr. Sasha Lessin Janet Kira Lessin School of Tantra   October 27-29, 2017 Singles and couples of all sexual orientations are welcome. Benefits of the Sacred Sexuality Celebration Increase your ability to be sexy, powerful, loving, vulnerable, and spiritual. Experience fun interactive tantric rituals that delight and inspire. Discover new ways to create and receive deep intimate connection. Open chakras of the Inner Child, Sexy Self, Hero, Lover, Seer and Divine. Practice advanced communication skills for recognition and acceptance. Explore ways of dramatically improving your relationships and love life.   Facilitators: Sasha and Janet Sasha Lessin, Ph.D., Dean, School of Tantra & Janet Kira Lessin, Professor of Tantric Studies.  Authors of Tantra for All Chakras by the Lessins, at Amazon.com. Their website is http://schooloftantra.com/ To sample How the Lessins’ All Chakra Tantra works in a relationship, listen to http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/230-expanded-lovemaking/episodes/3493-sharing-bliss-chakra-lovemaking-dr-sasha   October 27-29, 2017  Fri. 7:30pm-10:30pm, Sat. 10am-8pm, Sun. 10am–7pm   Venue: Live Oak Unitarian Universalist Church, 3315 El Salido Pkwy, Cedar Park TX Price $995, Discounted $595pp.  Early Bird price prior to 8/15 is $395. (Link needed  www…….)                   Sexual  Empowerment   Transformational Weekend by Ecstatic Hearts TM   November 3-5, 2017   Singles and couples of all sexual orientations are welcome. Benefits of Sexual Empowerment Become Sexier: average increase of participants is over 24% Own Your Sexiness, fully embrace who you are as a sexual being. Create your ideal love life with confidence and vision. Free yourself from shame, guilt, trauma, and fear. Increase the passion and romance in your relationship/s. Discover and unburden yourself of unconscious beliefs holding you back. Unleash your sexual power, with new levels of energy and excitement.   Facilitators: Melanie and Scott McClure Happily married and practicing Tantra together for 9 years. Founders of Ecstatic Hearts. Scott is a best-selling author featured in two films.  Both were recently featured on the Learning Channel. They have taught over a thousand people internationally how to have truly extraordinary love lives and to live ecstatically.   November 3-5, 2017  Fri. 7:30pm-11pm, Sat. 10am-11pm, Sun. 10am–8pm    Venue: Live Oak Unitarian Universalist Church, 3315 El Salido Pkwy, Cedar Park TX Price $995, Discounted $595 per person.  Early Bird prior to 8/15 $495. (Link needed  www…….)                                   Combo Package Pricing Get both amazing weekends for the deeply discounted price $1990 of only $895. Even Better, the Early Bird Price if purchased prior to 9/30/2017 is just $795. And the rock bottom Super Early Bird Price is a mere $695. You are practically getting both for the price of one. Act now as we don’t know how quickly this unprecedented event will sell out.   Register for Both:  Please click www……..   In addition, during the week between these classes, you will have the opportunity to have personalized coaching sessions with Sasha and Janet to take your love life to the next level. If interested in this please contact Janet at ……....

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Tantra Gift of the Gods to Maximize Co-Creation of Existence: Internet Radio with Janet Kira Lessin, Articles too

Posted by on May 18, 2013 in All-Chakra Tantra, Aquarian Radio, Books, Certification Program, Chakras, Education, History, Love, Radio, Relationships, Sexuality, Spirituality, Tantra | 0 comments

Tantra Gift of the Gods to Maximize Co-Creation of Existence: Internet Radio with Janet Kira Lessin, Articles too

Tantra is an ancient spiritual practice that originates from space. Ancient aliens who colonized the Earth 450,000 years ago bought tantra from the planet Nibiru and practiced tantra to maximize conception and bring into physicality from higher dimensions souls of advanced capabilities in order to advance civilization and culture and maximize chances for their species’ survival. It was through these tantric practices that Enki, a brilliant scientist and spiritually advanced soul, and Ninmah, a goddess of divine love who would become the main counselor, diplomat and primary peacekeeper for the Anunnaki came through the seed of Anu and his concubines from the Galzu, a species from the angelic realm of existence.         Click the arrow for a dynamic radio expo: Tantra allows species to awaken kundalini and reconnect souls to their higher awareness of their universal role at the appropriate time for the individual after they’ve reach a point in their lives when it’s time for them to remember. All beings come through the veil.of forgetfulness when incarnating into third dimensional form in order to fully engage in this dimension, which is called life, and fully participate in this program. This program, which is the Earth matrix, is a subroutine matrix of the primary matrix, which is the Solaris Solar system matrix, which is twin system with the Nemesis solar system.   In higher levels of awareness souls feel one another fully because density is less, form is more permeable and we continually merge mind and form, thus are able to understand each other better. We exist more as group mind, hive mind like bees and ants. We are telepathic. Thoughts are read and understood immediately so we respond immediately and know our oneness.   We agreed to experience separation in order to create life that is individualistic. This experiment has resulted in more diversity. The original polarity was self and not self which perpetuated exponentially creating the continuum and all that is. At first we played with negative emotions and began by not liking things about the apparent others we created in the “self, not-self” polarity game.   We began with negative emotions and thoughts which gradually became the ability to hurt the other, first emotionally then as we traveled deeper into form and density, we could hit then eventually kill one another, We’ve been killing ever sense in an ever expanding variety of ways, starting with killing one, than many, and eventually ending with mass weapons of destruction, like nuclear weapons, and other weapons, the likes of which not yet seen on this planet but in existence in the universe.   The Earth has been quarantined so that we may not take nukes into space and not contaminate other worlds, but also so that this planet with it’s extreme diversity of species is protected from the planet killer species that exist out there in the galaxy/universe.   The experiment is about complete and we’ve rounded the corner and are returning to higher densities where the illusion of separateness is less intense. We will now love each other more because form is less dense and we feel each other more thus we have more compassion and empathy for one another. We have paid our dues as a species and the experiment in density and separation...

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ANAL SEX by David J. Ley, Ph.D. in Psychology Today

Posted by on May 8, 2013 in Love, Sexuality | 0 comments

What is with the male fascination with heterosexual anal sex, anyway? Men seem to fantasize obsessively about anal sex, hundreds of porn movies are made every year that fetishize anal sex, and women everywhere debate whether they should or shouldn’t have anal sex with their boyfriend or husband, while men discuss how to convince their female partners to give it a try. When women do have anal sex, the overwhelming majority, do so at the request of their male partner.So, why? What does anal sex mean? . Heterosexual anal sex has been around for millennia. Paintings and etchings from Japan, China and Europe all depict men performing anal sex on women, as do ancient erotic drawings, sculpture and pottery from the Mediterranean and South America. In some Polynesian cultures, anal sex was practiced explicitly as a means of birth control. Today, some adolescents regard anal sex as a means to prevent conception, regardless of increased risks for transmission of sexually transmitted diseases. Over the past decades, heterosexual anal sex rates have climbed. In the Fifties, anal sex was reported by fewer than fifteen percent of the population. . Modern overall rates suggest that around a third of men have performed anal sex on a woman, and slightly fewer women have received anal sex. . The rates are still higher in sexually active adult in their twenties. . But, for married and committed couples, where disease and pregnancy aren’t a significant concern, how can we explain the prevalence of the male fascination with anal sex? Men are sexually interested by variety, but aside from this, there is no relevant evolutionary argument, as anal sex of course produces no heirs. . Anal sex, and a desire for anal sex, serves different purposes for men. The strongest, and most common argument that men voice, is that a woman who will engage in anal sex is inherently arousing to a man. Such a woman, in embracing anal sex, is embracing it with no intent or possible result of pregnancy – it is sex, at its rawest. . For a man, anal sex with a woman is her allowing him to play Star Trek, and venture into uncharted territory. Even if it is not where no man has gone before, it is still something novel, ncommon, and special in its rarity. A woman engaging in anal sex shows her desire and willingness to have sex in a purely physical way, with no thought of pregnancy. She is embracing, to some degree, a willingness to make her body a sexual object. Some research suggests that women who engage in anal sex report having more orgasms, not necessarily during anal sex alone, but in their overall levels of sexual activity. The overall conclusions are that the women who are willing to engage in anal sex tend to be more adventurous, more sensual, more relaxed in bed, and thus, more orgasmic. . A woman willing to engage in anal sex is giving her mate something special, rare and uncommon. . The degree of pain in anal sex is a mixed issue. In some relationships where bondage and discipline factors play a role, the pain a woman might experience in anal sex is part of the allure. For others, men and women often work carefully to decrease any pain, using lubricants and preparation, to increase comfort, and pleasure for both parties. This preparation and work, the special attention to preparation, serves as an intense form of foreplay, heightening excitement, extending the sexuality and sensuousness of the encounter, and,...

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MERGE WITH LOVERS; DISSOLVE SEPARATENESS ILLUSION: Keyes youtubes, Lessin Article, Do-It-With Partners Exercise

Posted by on Mar 10, 2013 in Articles, Love, Relationships | 1 comment

MERGE WITH LOVERS; DISSOLVE SEPARATENESS ILLUSION: Keyes youtubes, Lessin Article, Do-It-With Partners Exercise

by Sasha Lessin, Ph.D., Dean, School of Tantra www.schooloftantra.net Heed what’s hard handling your honeys. Difficulties handling them expose your expectations that they’ll do what you want or forgo what you forbid.   But when you need your mates to make you happy, you produce pain. Sometimes you get your way, but sometimes you don’t. Why upset yourself over it?   Defeat your addictions–rigid conditioning that makes you hurt and angry. Addictions are hopes that hurt. They dictate how you and your darlings must relate for you to feel fulfilled.]   Replace your addictive demands with preferences. Get what you prefer and you smile. And if you don’t get what you prefer, you don’t cry. Preferences are wants which, when unmet, don’t make you moan.   IF YOUR PRECIOUS PEOPLE WON’T PERFORM AS YOU PREFER, PLEASE YOURSELF AND STILL APPRECIATE THEM   END SUFFERING: UPLEVEL ADDICTIVE DEMANDS TO PREFERENCES   1) Love is eternal, involvement, negotiable. Love your lovers forever, celebrate what you’ve shared. Wish them well and good-loving with whomever they connect, whether or not they keep connecting with you at the level and with the quality you want. You and they blessed each other, facilitated each other’s progress and development in life’s learning. Shower lovers past with appreciations and put your efforts into your currently active loves.   2) Uplevel addictive involvement–that which makes you suffer if you lack the contact you desire–to preference. If your attachment to a certain form of contact (regular alone time with a certain lover) hurts when you do not get it, transform that addictive demand (she must spend a certain amount and quality of 1×1 time with me) to a preference (I’m ok, in fact, quite happy, whether she does or does not spend time with me). Just keep telling your truth without blame or judgement to all concerned and enjoy what you’ve got, don’t sweat what you’ve not.   3) Reprogram the subself within you that perseveres in addictive behavior; find out when it came into your life, how it served you then, what it has done throughout the years to protect your vulnerability and what its interest is in holding on to the current diminishing relationship. Seriously consider other, more ecologically homoeostatic means of meeting the needs of this persevering subself’s addictive demands.   4) Never regard yourself as a second-class human, who must always defer to others’ needs. You’re sovereign; you must make yourself happy. Empathize with your own emotions, analyze your needs, make loving requests of those who care about you, requests that, if lovingly met, meet your needs. As much as possible, meet your own needs and experience the joy that attracts others to you.   MERGE WITH LOVERS; DISSOLVE SEPARATENESS ILLUSION   Here’s an exercise to do with each of your lovers. Do it and you and they’ll feel your oneness.   Sit with a partner. Maintain eye contact. Don’t touch.   Tell her or him, “I feel separateness from you when I say to myself … (specify all of the rational and irrational, serious and trivial, crazy and stupid and clear and astute things you say to yourself that make you feel separate from her or him.) Exhaust your list.   Your partner sits calmly and says, “Thank you” after each separation you enumerate.  ...

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HOW TO REALLY LOVE A WOMAN: TANTRA DATE PHOTOS by Janet Kira Lessin

Posted by on Feb 2, 2013 in Articles, Sexuality, Tantra | 0 comments

HOW TO REALLY LOVE A WOMAN: TANTRA DATE PHOTOS by Janet Kira Lessin Hubby Sasha and I are proud to bring the following photos to you. It took many years for me to be brave enough to allow them to be taken. However, I believe so firmly in the loving, healing path of tantra that I felt it is essential that this information get out to you and those in your life. These photos are taken from our best selling book, How to Really Love A Woman, which explains the first date in a series of tantra dates that we call Adore Aphrodite. We teach this technique at our Seminars and Tantra School. I hope you enjoy them. . Schedule your session today, click HERE. . Buy the Book, click HERE. . If you’re a minor, don’t click the link below: . http://www.schooloftantra.net/Photos/WomanTantraDatePhotos.htm . FOUR TANTRIC TRYSTS guides you as Giver as you adore and nurture a female lover–your Receiver. You show her she can trust you as her healer. You help her heal herself and adopt strategies to love wisely and expand her sexual ecstacy. . When you’ve trysted tantrically, you love each other more and better. . In Tantra Tryst 1, Activate Your Chakras, you open your energy vortexes (chakras) to each other. You share your diverse inner-voices. Learn, in this tryst, what hurts and scares your Inner Kids. See how you grew subselves to block pain and fear. You discern when to lower your subself shields, share vulnerability and connect with each other. You synergize your inner selves’ dance within and between you. . In Tryst 2, Reprogram Her Parental Imprints, you help your Receiver escape the automatic limits her rearers and culture inculcated. Then she reacts to you as you, not as a stand-in for a parent. . Tryst 3, Refine How You Relate, you guide her through exercises to refine how you and she relate. You establish the trust you need to nurture, adore, delight and worship her so she can safely express everything to you. . Tryst 4, Heal Her Heart, Encourage Her Ejaculation, you touch her vagina inside and trigger repressed, suppressed and under-expressed pain she expresses as you touch, pain that blocks her full sexual sensuality and inhibits ejaculatory orgasms. You help her express pain and release her blocks so she can, when she chooses, ejaculate. You stroke her inner clitoris and urethral sponge till she ejaculates and rises to new delight heights. . Available in Hardcover, Paperback and Kindle from...

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HOW TO REALLY LOVE A WOMAN: in Four Tantric Trysts

Posted by on Jan 21, 2013 in Books | 0 comments

FOUR TANTRIC TRYSTS guides you as Giver as you adore and nurture a female lover–your Receiver. You show her she can trust you as her healer. You help her heal herself and adopt strategies to love wisely and expand her sexual ecstacy. When you’ve trysted tantrically, you love each other more and better. . In Tantra Tryst 1, Activate Your Chakras, you open your energy vortexes (chakras) to each other. You share your diverse inner-voices. Learn, in this tryst, what hurts and scares your Inner Kids. See how you grew subselves to block pain and fear. You discern when to lower your subself shields, share vulnerability and connect with each other. You synergize your inner selves’ dance within and between you. . In Tryst 2, Reprogram Her Parental Imprints, you help your Receiver escape the automatic limits her rearers and culture inculcated. Then she reacts to you as you, not as a stand-in for a parent. . Tryst 3, Refine How You Relate, you guide her through exercises to refine how you and she relate. You establish the trust you need to nurture, adore, delight and worship her so she can safely express everything to you. . Tryst 4, Heal Her Heart, Encourage Her Ejaculation, you touch her vagina inside and trigger repressed, suppressed and under-expressed pain she expresses as you touch, pain that blocks her full sexual sensuality and inhibits ejaculatory orgasms. You help her express pain and release her blocks so she can, when she chooses, ejaculate. You stroke her inner clitoris and urethral sponge till she ejaculates and rises to new delight heights. . Available in Hardcover, Paperback and Kindle from amazon.com. . Schedule a class/session, click HERE. . Read more/photos, click HERE....

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LESSONS LEARNED WITH PAST LOVERS APPLY NOW: Tantra School, Part 3, Web Radio, Article

Posted by on Jan 13, 2013 in All-Chakra Tantra, Aquarian Radio, History, Love, Radio, Relationships, Sexuality, Spirituality, Tantra | 0 comments

Listen to internet radio with Aquarian Radio  on Blog Talk Radio Click link above for radio show, where Janet Lessin shows you how to use the cues below, then try it yourself with a partner.   LESSONS LEARNED WITH PAST LOVERS APPLY NOW by Sasha Lessin, Ph.D., Dean, School of Tantra www.schooloftantra.com   LOOK AT EACH OF YOUR LOVERS’ LOVES: Review What they Learned   Invite a lover to review lovers from the past.  Alternately, take a non-lover of yours through the cue sequence below. Say the review will help her or him better current relationships. Look at the events, sexual and emotional sharing in each of her or his prior pairings. Review the developmental tasks s/he worked on in the relationships and note what s/he and they learned from being together. Then she sees how s/he can apply what s/he learned to you or, if you are facilitating a person who’s not your lover, how s/he can apply what s/he learned to her or his current loves.   Lie on your back. Relax. Close your eyes.   Feel your genitals–your sexual chakra; notice your heart, your love chakra.   Reconsider your lovers–the significant ones-from days gone. Tell me their names, I’ll write them.  Lover 1 [Write it] Lover 2 Lover 3 Lover 4 Lover 5 Etc.   For each lover listed, Tell me the YEARS you were involved and how old you were,  [Write them next to the names indicated]   Say where you were when you related to this lover the key EVENTS in your relationship [Take notes next to the names indicated].   Tell me your EMOTIONAL AND SEXUAL SHARING with each.   Tell the DEVELOPMENTAL TASKS YOU COMPLETED with each.   Summarize the events, sexual and emotional sharing and the developmental tasks we’ve experienced together.    Imagine [Lover 1: Say name] is before you. Toward him or her, express your LONGINGS, what you wished you could have shared with him or her .   Express to him or her any WITHHELD FEELINGS, things you didn’t get to say.   Tell him or her your RESENTMENTS.   As you imagine him or her before you, tell him or her your DEMANDS, what you really wanted from him or her .   Say, to him or her, your APPRECIATIONS    Tell him or her what you REGRET. Say what you FORGIVE him or her for.   What subselves, inner voices or attitudes did you develop as a result of this relationship?   Tell [Lover 1: Say his or her name] WHAT YOU LEARNED from being together.    FORGIVE YOURSELF aloud for not doing better.    Bid him or her FAREWELL.    How, if you had it to do over, would you DO BETTER in the relationship with [Lover 1: Say his or her name]?    How can you apply that improvement to your relationship with me?   [or with your current lovers] ***************************************************************************** LOVER 2 Imagine [Lover 2: Say his or her name] is before you. Toward him or her, express your LONGINGS, what you wished you could have shared with him or her.     Express toward [Lover 2] any WITHELD FEELINGS, things you didn’t get to say fully   Tell him or her your RESENTMENTS    As you imagine she or he before you, tell him...

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MANAGE YOUR IMAGO: Web Radio, Article, youtubes

Posted by on Jan 11, 2013 in Aquarian Radio, Articles, Education, Love, Radio, Relationships, Tantra | 0 comments

Web Radio with Janet and Sasha Lessin & Article by Sasha Lessin, Ph.D.                 Click, listen, then do the exercise below with a partner. Listen to internet radio with Aquarian Radio on Blog Talk Radio IMAGO HEALING: Based on Hendrix, H., 1988, Getting the Love You Want : A Guide for Couples   Your Imago’s a part of you, an internal energy system of which you’re unconscious; it’s opposite inner voices you ordinarily use to deal with the world. Opposites attract. You see reflections of this part in people that attract you. The Imago makes you seek a lover like it, so you can recognize that you, too, have, albeit in underdeveloped form, the very aspects that you find first so attractive, then so annoying in a lover. Your Imago focuses you on men or women that embody what you loved about your parents and prior lovers but also what you hated about them. A lover your Imago makes you select can also hurt you like Mom, Dad and your exes did. Your imago hopes, when it gets you and a lover to create scenes where she or he could hurt you again, she or he’ll do better than your parents and ex-lovers and thus heal the hurts of your past.   Facilitate a lover or a friend; take her or him through the cues below; he or she’s your Receiver. The Receiver seeks in you (or a lover you’ll represent) what s/he loved about his/her caregivers. You also represent what s/he hated about them. You can hurt him or her like they did or heal him or her when you love instead of hurt her or him. In the exercise below, your Receiver experiences his or her Inner Child, the voice of his or her emotional reality. Heal Hurts teaches the Receiver to defuse over-reactions to you or the lover you represent and to manage emotional reactions based on the Receiver’s past so s/he doesn’t distance you or his or her lovers now based on what happened before. S/he learns to release pent-up feelings and rescript once-appropriate but now-limiting rules.   HEAL HURTS   When the Receiver responds to the cues that comprise Heal Hurts, s/he also learns to say what s/he wants without masking reactions. S/he requests healing behavior from you and asks you to affirm his or her new openness.   Read cues in bold type aloud to the Receiver. Exception: read anything enclosed in square brackets [like this] silently. Sit facing her or him. Center yourself or move into a therapist role. Erect a psychic filter so you can avoid reacting to her or his content and stay present for her or his healing. Shield and center yourself in case s/he says you hurt, upset or frustrated her or him.   Where you need to respond, you’ll see this ###. Where you see ***, it’s her or his cue to respond: give her a few breaths’ time to do so. If s/he doesn’t respond, pause several breaths and read the cue again.   Tell me about an UPSET, frustration, problem or issue you have with me, with your current partner or with your last lover, using this formula. “When you … , I feel … and react by...

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