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MANAGE YOUR IMAGO: Web Radio, Article, youtubes

Posted by on Jan 11, 2013 in Aquarian Radio, Articles, Education, Love, Radio, Relationships, Tantra | 0 comments

Web Radio with Janet and Sasha Lessin & Article by Sasha Lessin, Ph.D.                 Click, listen, then do the exercise below with a partner. Listen to internet radio with Aquarian Radio on Blog Talk Radio IMAGO HEALING: Based on Hendrix, H., 1988, Getting the Love You Want : A Guide for Couples   Your Imago’s a part of you, an internal energy system of which you’re unconscious; it’s opposite inner voices you ordinarily use to deal with the world. Opposites attract. You see reflections of this part in people that attract you. The Imago makes you seek a lover like it, so you can recognize that you, too, have, albeit in underdeveloped form, the very aspects that you find first so attractive, then so annoying in a lover. Your Imago focuses you on men or women that embody what you loved about your parents and prior lovers but also what you hated about them. A lover your Imago makes you select can also hurt you like Mom, Dad and your exes did. Your imago hopes, when it gets you and a lover to create scenes where she or he could hurt you again, she or he’ll do better than your parents and ex-lovers and thus heal the hurts of your past.   Facilitate a lover or a friend; take her or him through the cues below; he or she’s your Receiver. The Receiver seeks in you (or a lover you’ll represent) what s/he loved about his/her caregivers. You also represent what s/he hated about them. You can hurt him or her like they did or heal him or her when you love instead of hurt her or him. In the exercise below, your Receiver experiences his or her Inner Child, the voice of his or her emotional reality. Heal Hurts teaches the Receiver to defuse over-reactions to you or the lover you represent and to manage emotional reactions based on the Receiver’s past so s/he doesn’t distance you or his or her lovers now based on what happened before. S/he learns to release pent-up feelings and rescript once-appropriate but now-limiting rules.   HEAL HURTS   When the Receiver responds to the cues that comprise Heal Hurts, s/he also learns to say what s/he wants without masking reactions. S/he requests healing behavior from you and asks you to affirm his or her new openness.   Read cues in bold type aloud to the Receiver. Exception: read anything enclosed in square brackets [like this] silently. Sit facing her or him. Center yourself or move into a therapist role. Erect a psychic filter so you can avoid reacting to her or his content and stay present for her or his healing. Shield and center yourself in case s/he says you hurt, upset or frustrated her or him.   Where you need to respond, you’ll see this ###. Where you see ***, it’s her or his cue to respond: give her a few breaths’ time to do so. If s/he doesn’t respond, pause several breaths and read the cue again.   Tell me about an UPSET, frustration, problem or issue you have with me, with your current partner or with your last lover, using this formula. “When you … , I feel … and react by...

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CTP 111 PRACTICE CHAKRA YOGA BASICS

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CTP 111 PRACTICE CHAKRA YOGA BASICS . Chakra Yoga stretches, strengthens and centers you. It opens each of your energy centers so you feel safe, sexy, empowered, loving, communicative, clear and connected to your beloved and the world. You combine safe postures adapted to your physical condition with precise breathing techniques, subtle spine movements and uplifting visualizations to bridge the spiritual and the physical within you, inspire and ground you. Yoga moves, breathing and inner holds tune up your chakras and their corresponding aspects of consciousness. All the chakras’ energies flow through your central channel, your inner flute. Then you’re ready for a flute duet with your beloved and for a symphony of all souls. You share yoga basics with clients. . Practice Chakra Yoga Basics is one of the courses in the Tantra Certification Program: Lovel I: Certified Tantra Practitioner. . You may take his course individually. . Practice Chakra Yoga BasicsTuition $150.00...

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CTP 110 DIALOGUE INNER VOICES, WITNESS & CENTER

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CTP 110 DIALOGUE INNER VOICES, WITNESS & CENTER . Use Voice Dialogue to center yourself and to access, own and integrate your shadow and spiritual selves–your less known inner voices (also known as personality aspects, roles, subselves, subpersonalities, egos). You center yourself when you hold the tension between opposed inner voices. Centered, you recognize, embrace and coordinate your protective, vulnerable, instinctual and spiritual subselves. Learn how interactive patterns sour from unexpressed vulnerability and projection of disowned inner voices on others. Practice expressing your hidden hurts and insecurities, say how what bugs you about your friends and lovers is true of you, too. You practice using Voice Dialogue to facilitate others. . Dialogue Inner Voices is one of the courses in the Tantra Certification Program: Lovel I: Certified Tantra Practitioner. . You may take his course individually . Dialogue Inner Voices – Tuition $150.00 ....

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CTP 109 WORSHIP A WOMAN

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CTP 109 WORSHIP A WOMAN . This class, to be experienced immediately after CTP107, is the second part of a tantric date where you listened compassionately to a woman sharing her childhood and sexual history with you. In this part of the date you honor her clitoris, lick her labia, caress her vagina with your fingers, coach catharsis, encourage her ejaculation. In the homework, you teach others how to worship women with the methods you experienced and practiced in class. . Worship A Woman is one of the courses in the Tantra Certification Program: Lovel I: Certified Tantra Practitioner. . You may take the Worship A Woman course individually. . Tuition $150.00  ...

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CTP 108 SATISFY SELF, SUPPRESS SQUIRT, SUSTAIN SEX

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CTP 108 SATISFY SELF, SUPPRESS SQUIRT, SUSTAIN SEX . Learn the varieties of self-pleasuring. Experience and learn to guide others mutually viewing each other’s masturbatory movements to learn one another’s techniques. Learn, practice and teach bandha-breathing, position-choreography, male ejaculation control, female ejaculation, kundalini quivers as well as sustained in-gasms and orgasms. Guide clients through these experiences. . Satisfy Self, Suppress Squirt, Sustain Sex is one of the courses in the Tantra Certification Program: Lovel I: Certified Tantra Practitioner. . You may take his course individually. . Tuition $150.00 ....

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CTP 107 LOOK AT THE LADY’S LOVES

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CTP 107 LOOK AT THE LADY’S LOVES . Guide a woman as she reconsiders her lovers from days to better her current relationships. Look at the events, sexual and emotional sharing in each prior pairing. Review the developmental tasks she worked on in each relationships and note what she and her lovers learned from being together. Then you see how what she learned applies to her current loves. . Look At The Lady’s Loves is one of the courses in the Tantra Certification Program: Lovel I: Certified Tantra Practitioner. . You may take his course individually, . Tuition $150.00 .      ...

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CTP 106 MANAGE IMAGOS

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CTP 106 MANAGE IMAGOS . Imagos–inner voices–make us seek lovers who personify what you loved or hated about your Mom or Dad. Partners you facilitate in tantric counseling seek (in lovers you represent) what they loved about their caregivers. But you, as lover surrogate, also symbol what they hated about parents. The lover you represent can hurt them like their parents did. When you don’t hurt them and instead, love them, they again feel their Inner Children. They rescript themselves for interdependency rather than co-dependency. . Reprogram Parental Imprints is one of the courses in the Tantra Certification Program: Lovel I: Certified Tantra Practitioner. . You may take his course individually – Tuition...

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CTP 105 COUNSEL RELATIONSHIPS: LISTEN ACTIVELY, ROLEPLAY, COMMUNICATE COMPASSION

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CTP 105 COUNSEL RELATIONSHIPS: LISTEN ACTIVELY, ROLEPLAY, COMMUNICATE COMPASSION . Understand how genuine concern, authentic communication and active listening help you, your lovers and clients grow. Listen actively–mirror, validate and empathize with one another. Give genuine regard: paraphrase, summarize, show sympathy. Roleplay–share advanced feedback; show a partners and clients how they come across. . Counsel Relationships is one of the courses in the Tantra Certification Program: Lovel I: Certified Tantra Practitioner and is available as an individual course.   . Tuition is $150.00   ....

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CTP 104 DELETE DAD’S DEFECTS IN YOUR LOVELIFE

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CTP 104 DELETE DAD’S DEFECTS IN YOUR LOVELIFE . If Dad didn’t completely love and accept himself and others, you copied this. Divorce Dad, rise above his negativies. Realize he’ll never love you unconditionally. Express anger, then put yourself in his place and feel how his parents imprinted him to imprint you. Finally, forgive him and tell him you love him. Take other people through this process. . Reprogram Parental Imprints is one of the courses in the Tantra Certification Program: Lovel I: Certified Tantra Practitioner. . You may take his course individually – Tuition $150.00...

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CTP 103 MEND MOM’S MISTAKES WHEN YOU MATE

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CTP 103 MEND MOM’S MISTAKES WHEN YOU MATE . If Mom didn’t completely love and accept herself and others, you copied her. She couldn’t model self-love and overflowing love to others if her parents, in turn, didn’t model it. In this class you lovingly divorce her. Rise above her negative examples. Fully, get that she’ll never meet your demand to love you and ask nothing in return. You rage at how she hurt you and the crap she modeled. Then put ourselves in her place and get how her parents molded her. You empathize. You forgive her. Express love to her. As homework, you guide others to drop junk programs they got from their mothers. . Reprogram Parental Imprints is one of the courses in the Tantra Certification Program: Lovel I: Certified Tantra Practitioner. . You may take his course individually – Tuition $150.00 ....

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