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Chakra 6: THINK, DREAM, INTUIT, CHANNEL, ENVISION by Sasha Lessin, Ph.D., Dean, School of Tantra

»Posted by on Jan 1, 2013 in All-Chakra Tantra, Articles, Love, Spirituality, Tantra | 0 comments

Chakra 6: THINK, DREAM, INTUIT, CHANNEL, ENVISION by Sasha Lessin, Ph.D., Dean, School of Tantra       CHAKRA SIX: BRAIN, INNER VISION, INTUITION, INTELLECT   The brow/third-eye chakra has two components: intellect and intuition. Humans are all psychic to some degree and by activating this chakra you open yourself to other worlds and visions. When you and your beloved join your minds and vision centers, you begin to see what they mean by the saying, “thinking is the best way to travel”.   Together, with the combined energy of your brow chakras, you’ll roam the universe and explore other dimensions of reality.   Merge completely with your lover; mind, body and soul. Combine your psychic powers, manifest and fulfill all your dreams. Let love rain down upon you, through you, envelope every molecule of your being and spread out to both of you to electrify every cell.    Surrender completely to each other and experience your oneness. Know that the consciousness that runs through your lover is but a part of yourself. You’re becoming super-charged, the kundalini is moving. Next stop, crown chakra. Prepare to give birth to your higher selves.The sixth (brain) brain chakra shows you visions, transmits intuitions and applies your logical intellect.   Chakra 6 gifts you with visions for yourself, for people you love, for your community and for the world. You and your beloveds intuit one another’s thoughts and feelings, as well as those of your children, parents, friends and others.   Access sixth chakra messages from your dreams, pastlives, fantasies, archetypes and hero-tales, especially as they apply to your intimate relationships.                                             PARTNER RELATING EXPERIENCE TO ACTIVATE CHAKRA 6, YOUR VISION CENTER   Sit comfortably facing a partner with whom you’ll explore your mind–the Ooo chakra. In this relating exercise, you’ll evoke your psychic abilities and archetypal understandings.   Hold your partner’’s hands, rest your foreheads together, gaze upward into each others’ eyes until, in your vision, your partner’s two eyes seem to merge together as a single eye, your partner’s third eye, so to appear.   Together, chant Ooo three times as you look upward into each other’s eyes. Imagine each Ooo tunes your psychic center. then say, these sentences to each other:   You think, intuit and envision for yourself. You think, intuit and envision for your beloveds. You think, intuit and envision for your community.   I think, intuit and envision for myself. I think, intuit and envision for my beloveds. I think, intuit and envision for my community.   Separate your heads but keep your gaze into each other’’s eyes.   Designate yourself or your partner the role of playing a psychic. If you’d your partner to enact a psychic and read you,point to yourself; if you want to read your partner, point to him or her.   PSYCHIC   If you’re going to be read (your partner’ll be the psychic giving you a reading), touch imaginary dime in your pocket.   Pyschic: identify with your psychic self, the part of you that intuits directly; the other opens her or his mind to the psychic.   Look, Psychic, past your partner’’s current face. See, in your mind’s eye, what your partner looked like as a newborn, as a child, as a young adult.   Image a pivotal childhood incident in her or his life.   Imagine your partner in a pastlife.   See your partner experience a pivotal incident in the pastlife you imagine for him or her.   Guess, if your partner developed best in the next ten years, how s/he’’d be. Tell your partner what you think about how she could be most fullfilled in a decade.   Now, Psychic, share what you imagined for your partner’’s      pivotal childhood experience,       pastlife,      perfected future.   FEEDBACK If you’re the partner who received the psychic’s reading, give your psychic feedback on accuracy of imagined childhood incident or situation.   Pay the imaginary dime to psychic.   Psychics: you took the dime; now paid professional psychics. Prior Episode Chakra 5: VITALIZE YOUR VOICE  Internet Radio & Articles on Expression Click the arrow in the embed above and hear our show. Chakra 5: VITALIZE YOUR VOICE ALL-CHAKRA TANTRA, walks you, step-by-step through exercises that teach you how to *Pare Parental Programs that limit your loving *Coordinate your Inner Voices to facilitate sensational sexalloving *Heal your lover’s hurts *Encourage female ejaculation and master male ejaculatory control All-Chakra Tantra: Synergized Sacred & Psychological Exercises for Inner Children, Voluptuaries, Heros, Romantics,...

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BLISS OF ALL-CHAKRA LOVEMAKING: Dr. Sasha & Janet Lessin Share on Internet Radio

»Posted by on Jan 1, 2013 in Articles, Guest Appearances, Radio, Relationships, Tantra | 1 comment

Janet & Dr.Sasha Lessin Share BLISS OF ALL-CHAKRA LOVEMAKING on Patti Taylor’s Internet Radio. The Lessins are the founders of the School of Tantra in Maui, Hawaii and in selected venues all over. They teach people to make love with their whole being, and to unblock any and all stuck places that get in the way of intimacy, personal power and full orgasmic presence. How to Really Love A Woman is available in hardcover, softcover and kindle on amazon.com. Click HERE to purchase. Learn what the chakras mean, and how to use them to create a beautiful lovemaking ceremony. Experience for yourself a dynamic process that Sasha and Janet use to generate connection using the seven chakras to send shivers of delight up your spine! You can feel the energy while listening, and better yet, also reproduce this in your own home with the handout the Lessins give.  Click HERE to listen to the radio show.   Then, tune in as Sasha gives Janet a reenactment of a full ejaculatory orgasm. Sasha very specifically goes stroke by stroke over exactly how he evokes every little nuance and pleasure from Janet’s clit and “cave”, as well as creating her “gushing” over the edge. You will get lots of specific ideas. Janet’s commentaries on the emotional impact of Sasha’s touches, and her vulnerability, are priceless, as are both of their spoken words to one another. Learn the kind of work the Lessins do to help others with issues such as sexual healing and emotional blocks to sex in their private counseling. This show models how easily true expanded love can be made! Plus, find out how they connect their work to planetary healing.   Schedule your own private in person, phone or Skype session now: $150 per hour  For the hearing impaired, here’s the script: Dr. Patti Taylor: Welcome to the Expanded Lovemaking show. I’m your host, Dr. Patti Taylor of Expanded Lovemaking dot com, and I teach you how to give and receive way more pleasure than you ever dreamed possible. Today on the show, we are talking about sharing the bliss of all chakra lovemaking with a partner. Usually, we have guests on talking about what they do. Today, we’re so lucky to have two experts on the show experiencing intimate yet powerful lovemaking and talking to us as they go through it themselves. I’ll be inviting you to join in energetically and to take back juicy knowledge and energy into your own lovemaking enjoyment. Our guests are Dr. Sasha Lessin, Dean of the School of Tantra, with his wife, Janet Lessin, Professor of Tantric Studies at the School of Tantra. So, welcome, Sasha and Janet Lessin. Janet Lessin: Aloha! Thank you for having us here. Sasha Lessin: Aloha. Dr. Patti Taylor: Hi, so, Dr. Sasha Lessin is a practicing psychotherapist and relationship counselor for over thirty years who brings many special skills to his counseling, including hypnotherapy, holotropic breathing, healing and past-life regressions, spirit releasement, and voice dialogue. Janet Lessin is an accomplished writer and teacher of Tantra. Sasha and Janet teach their diverse healing and spiritual paths together through their School of Tantra. They’re the authors of All Chakra Tantra and How to Really Love a Woman, amongst many other incredible books and things that they’ve created. They live in Maui, Hawaii, where they offer workshops, ceremonies, singles events, couples events, residential retreats, Tantra training of all sorts, and they also do counseling by phone. I think our listeners will love this show because, in a real life experience, you can feel the energy instead of just hearing about it. And I’ve always loved being able to model myself after experts. So today, then, we will find out all about All Chakra Tantra and have some demonstrations of the Lessins’ most requested teachings. Hopefully some of them, anyway. Including creating an intimate female ejaculatory lovemaking session. So let’s get started! Let’s find out a little bit about All Chakra Tantra, and I think we need to start out finding out what is a chakra. So hello, and can you tell us a little about All Chakra Tantra?   Sasha Lessin: Oh, I’d love to, and I’ll be posting this stuff on your site, Patti, so people can get it. Tantra, one of its meanings is “weaving.” It means weaving all levels of your awareness, and these levels we call “chakras.” These are things within you and between you and those you love. Think of the chakras with your body parts, the bottom of your torso, genitals is the next one, belly, heart, throat, brain, then the neocortex. And these are the parts...

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MY CLITORIS HAS WRITTEN A BOOK

»Posted by on Dec 3, 2012 in Books, Sexuality, Tantra | 4 comments

MY CLITORIS HAS WRITTEN A BOOK Are you kidding? What is this? The autobiography of a woman’s sexual organ? Who would even think of reading something so weird? Let alone writing it! . Well, remember ‘Vagina Monologues’? Remember how liberating it was to listen to all those women talk about their vaginas? This is different. It could be called: An Autonomous Woman’s Guide to the Healing and Awakening of Her Sacred Sexual Nature but I Clitoris is more to the point! It’s a kind of sexual re-education in poetry for women: youth, elders and everyone in between. The kind of education that can only come from the clitoris because only the clitoris knows what it’s like to be a clitoris! “The only organ in all known biology whose sole purpose is pleasure”. . Once you read I Clitoris and practice what ‘she’ preaches – you will be more empowered – not necessarily as the love goddess of the millennium, but as a real woman. One who knows her sexual self enough to share herself with dignity, passion and intelligence – when she chooses. . If you are a mother wondering how to talk sensitively to your daughter about teen pregnancy and sexual desire and how confusing it is to feel all that stuff let alone talk about it, you probably want to first read this yourself – and then share it with your daughter. . If you are a woman recovering from sexual abuse of any kind (and there are lots of kinds, believe me), then you probably need to read this and get a new sense of hope for yourself in a world where female violation is globally rampant. Most importantly, you will get some unique and profound (not to mention fun!) techniques for starting the process of self-healing enough that you can actually enjoy healthy relationships with men, or a partner of your choosing. If you are a guy wondering what is going on in the opposite sex, this book will give you some brand new insights about women and what makes them tick. I Clitoris will make you reconsider what lies between your thighs – in ways mostly sacred, sometimes profane; often sensual and definitely whimsical. . This book will make you laugh and maybe cry as you awaken to whole new understanding of Woman. It’s really easy to read even if the language is a bit unusual. And it is hand illustrated, making it quite beautiful. So far it is available as an e-book, but if you really want a hard copy, it can be done – individually printed just for you. You will then become the owner of a first edition of what promises to be a classic in the realm of enlightened sexuality. . Some Testimonials: . “Jaiia is a true bard, great teacher and an amazing artist who combines her wisdom and art to give us this delightful, informative and revolutionary book, with messages which, taken to heart, can uplift our species.” Sasha Lessin, Ph.D., Dean, School of Tantra . “I am reading slowly… I don’t want to finish it. How’s that for LOVING “I CLITORIS” … It’s a tactile piece of work, just as pearls love to be rubbed softly and with tenderness…I have printed it out and placed a copy on my altar” Caroline Muir – co-author of The Art of Conscious Loving and co-founder of DivineFeminine.com . “Having last weekend read this book I want to thank you – it has utterly transformed the way in which I view myself. I will never be a lesser person in my own eyes. I will from now on always be greater than the person I was before your words enlightened me to who and what I really am. A wonderful woman. I absolutely encourage all women to give this gift to themselves. With deep love and profound respect” Bebiella Nielsen Australia . I CLITORIS….. Brave, Bold, Beneficial and Beautiful! It needed to be written and no one better to write it than the inspiring and wondrous singer Jaiia. This book will make some of you blush but want to read more, it will bring back memories of parental upbringing, women’s mysteries and pleasure. It will shock some, amaze others, awaken those ready to read and in the end it is a very play on words which have created something we all know about but not many understand fully. Treat yourself, or a loved one, buy it and enjoy it. Diane McCann, Facilitator of The Goddess Within and Tantra for Couples. Australia So who wrote this? Well… Jaiia Earthschild is an artist of sound and word who...

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Chakra 5: VITALIZE YOUR VOICE Internet Radio & Articles on Expression

»Posted by on Nov 13, 2012 in Love, Relationships, Tantra | 0 comments

Chakra 5: VITALIZE YOUR VOICE  Internet Radio & Articles on Expression Click the arrow in the embed above and hear our show. Chakra 5: VITALIZE YOUR VOICE . Article: Chakra 5: Vitalize Your Voice : SPEAK OR STAY SILENT, BUT SING by Sasha Lessin, Ph.D., Dean, School of Tantra . 5th Chakra: throat, expression.  Hear each of your inner expressive voices as well as any voices that suppress expression. . For situations you face, let these voices of expression and of privacy speak to you internally. Ask them, . What do you want? . What needs drive what you want? . How do you aid me?  . What do you, in this situation, offer lovers and humanity? . Then you, the whole person, can choose what, when and how to show (or conceal) your inner voices to other people. . Honor your beloveds’ many voices too. . Speak authentically, kindly & helpfully. . Sing. . Sanctify oral sex. . *** . Activate Your Throat Chakra . Hands at throat, three times, chant ham.  With each ham you chant, imagine the bud of a blue rose appears in your throat.  And as you say ham, let the blue rose open and expand your options of talk or silence. . Hear, in your mind’s ear, your throat singing your song, a song that reminds you of who you are. . Cradle a partner’s throat in your hands. . Chant ham three times to each other.  Or chant it to the mirror. . Take turns; SING your favorite songs–songs that expresses who you are. . TICKLE each other till you giggle; this, too, opens your throat chakra. . Finish this sentence with each other as many times as you can: “YOU DON’T KNOW I ….”  . Weigh the risk of your partner’s probable reaction in the following completions against the possibility of more intimacy.  You may want a neutral witness to help you through any upset you fear the candor might trigger. . Notice WHAT YOU DREAD DIVULGING; magnify this fear and finish: “I have secrets so bad that if you knew you’d ….”  . “It’s hardest to tell you …. [Complete] . “I risk our relation by revealing ….”  [Complete] , ENACT YOUR NARRATOR . Personify your communicative chakra, the subself that shares or suppresses what you say.  . Relate your concerns about what your person reveals.  .   What do you need to feel safe to express authentically?  . If you dictated the truth to the world, how would it change?  . EXPRESS YOURSELF AUTHENTIC TO THE DEGREE YOU CHOOSE Take turns answering these questions to someone you’d like to know better and whom you’d like to know you better. Before I die, I intend to … The biggest mistake I ever made was … The biggest challenges in my life now are … I’d be willing to die for … My two most treasured memories of love are … The things that make those I live with a pleasure to live with are … The best and worst things about my sex life are … The features I like most and the ones I like least about my body are … One sexual fantasy I’d like fulfilled is … What I like least about you is … What I like least about you is (or was) also my trait in this way… What I like least about myself is … What I like most about you is … What I like most about myself is … If I could change you one way, I’d … I’d modify myself by …. You don’t know I …   All the above’s excerpt from ALL-CHAKRA TANTRA, available at http://www.schooloftantra.net/Store/Books/AllChakraTantra.htm *** Prior radio  : Chakra 4 (Love) THE HEART CHAKRA Listen to internet radio with Aquarian Radio on Blog Talk...

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Chakra 4: GIVE,GET, BE LOVE Internet Radio & Articles by Sasha Lessin, Ph.D.

»Posted by on Nov 3, 2012 in Love, Polyamory, Relationships, Tantra | 1 comment

Chakra 4: GIVE,GET, BE LOVE Internet Radio & Articles . Listen to internet radio with Aquarian Radio on Blog Talk Radio   Click the arrow in the embed above and hear our show.  Chakra 4, Give,Get, Be Love . . HEED YOUR HEART: Exercises with Tantric Partner by Sasha Lessin, Ph.D., Dean, School of Tantra . Do these exercises and you and your partner will open up your heart chakras and lovingly integrate your reactions to all your own inner voices, to each other and to the world. . Face each other in the Open Heart Pose Below: . Left legs forward, stretch your arms back, palms toward one another.  Open your chests to each other. .   Close your eyes.  Pretend you each STAND BEFORE SOMEONE you love–other than each other.  Beam love to the person you imagine before you. .   Finish the sentence in italics below aloud as you imagine a person you love faces you. You and s/he each speak at the same time to the persons you imagine (ignore for now what your partner vocalizes): “Here’s what I love about you ….”  (Remember, this is the person you imagine, not your actual partner; you’ll get to your partner in a bit). .   Imagine the person you visualize sends love to you; receive it. . Eyes still closed, broadcast love from your heart to your family, community and humanity.   . Open your eyes.  Beam love to each other.   . Access what you love about each other.  Then sit together.   . Say whom you saw and felt love toward when you had your eyes closed.  Share what you thought and felt when you sent love to her or him. .   Tell each other what you thought and felt when you sent love to your family.   . What did you think and feel when you sent love to the world? .   Complete, to each other: “WHAT I LOVE ABOUT YOU IS ….”.   EMBODY AFFECTION . Become your Love Chakra. Say what you want.  Say why you want that. .   How would your person live if you, Romantic subself, were the sole voice she or he heeded. . How do you balance your Giver and Taker subselves. . Relate what you’d do if you dictated love on Earth. .   *** . APPRECIATE  PLEASER & TAKER TOO: Center your Heart Center When You Both Give & Get Love .   Read the cues in bold below aloud to her; give her a few minutes to respond to each. .   Sit on this cushion–the place for your CENTER, where you  hear your inner selves. .   Tell me about your Pleaser, your nice part, that makes other people happy. .   What’s your Pleaser voice like? . What does it do for you. . Shift to a new position, a seat for PLEASER. . Hi.  Enact Pleaser.  Say what you do for    [partner’s name]. . When did your life as distinct Pleaser subself start? . What’s your history,Pleaser? . How do you protectherfrom  hurt, fear and insecurity. . What have you contributed to her or him? . Say what you’d like her to acknowledge and appreciate. . Thanks.  Let her return to Center position. . Hi, Center.  Tell me about your TAKER, the part Critic calls “Selfish”, the subself that wants you to have what you want. . Move to a seat for that self.  Be Taker.  Say, Taker, what you do for her or him. .   Say the main times you emerged, times you helped her or him. .   What would you like her or him to appreciate you for? . Relate when, nowadays, Taker, you’d like her or him to assert needs better.   . How, from your perspective, does she or he do in meeting her or his sexual, assertive and creative needs? .   Thanks, I liked talking.  Now let [partner’s name] return to CENTER. . Now move again; stand behind me, in the WITNESS position.  I review what your Pleaser and Taker said. ###[Summarize what you heard] .   Stand.  Embrace impartially.  As Witness, you don’t decide anything.  You just sense each voice’s energy as I tell about them. . [Say what you noticed about her Pleaser and Taker] Nod, “Yes,” when you feel them. . Return to the CENTER cushion. Experience the middle.  Feel and appreciate Pleaser and Taker. . Say what you learned. . CONSTELLATE  INNER LOVER . “Embody your Ideal Lover.  As Ideal  Lover, describe your existence–what you feel, think and do for your woman or man, how you regard her or him, what you do to help her...

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THE POLY LOVE-IN: SHARE SACRED SEXUALITY & Poly Vetting Checklist by Janet Kira Lessin

»Posted by on Oct 31, 2012 in Love, Polyamory, Relationships, Spirituality, Tantra | 1 comment

THE POLY LOVE-IN: SHARE SACRED SEXUALITYby Janet Kira Lessin When you and new lovers get together to make love for the first time, you can better honor your fertility and health concerns once you’ve heard each other’s sexual health information, asked questions and perhaps performed a home-HIV test. .   Each of you tells her or his sexual history.  Share your test results for sexually transmitted and other contagious diseases.  Say who and how you’ve touched sexually since your last HIV tests.  Say what methods you used (or didn’t) for disease protection.  State your fertility status. .   Notice your partners’ body language and eye movements as they share their sexual history.  Body and eye movement can indicate truth (people lie most about sex).  Ask questions until you get enough information to make intelligent decisions. .   WEIGH WHAT WANT & DON’T WANT. . Focus, breathe, find your center.  Notice signals your body sends you.  Is your belly tense, head aching, breathing rapid?  Then gather your thoughts and take turns saying what you seek, prefer and what you do not want sexually with each person at the love-in.  Consider all health, emotional and social factors and remember, you can say “No” anytime. .   CENTER YOURSELF BETWEEN INNER GIVER & TAKER .   You may hide your desires if your Giver– an inner voice that says to please others first—dominates you.  Your Giver knows how to make other people comfortable.  Trouble is, sometimes giving becomes more than an option, your Giver becomes your main voice, the only one you hear inside.  Your Giver takes you over and can ignore your own needs. .   If your Giver dominates you, you do what other people want you to do so they’ll like you.  You think, “I’m nice and just naturally try to make them happy first.”  This may please them and you for a while. .   But when you automatically please others first, you suppress your ability to choose how you want to interact sexually with your lovers at the love-in.  The Giver, always gratifying others, keeps your Taker–the part of you that wants to meet your own needs—offstage. .   Offstage in your unconscious, your Taker gathers strength and bitterness and can explode without consideration of your inner ecology or relations with your polymates. .   What works for me is inclusive, pair-bonded loving (Mono-poly), with Sasha and I each having a veto on one another’s sexual involvement.   Sasha never exercises his veto, but I often do.  In inclusive loving, all sexualloving takes place in each others’ presence.  Relating to other couples has to be right for both of us, no small requirement, since we’re bi, eccentric and intense and we need all-round approbation with our lovers. .   Show your protective voices that you can, from your discerning center, experiment with new behaviors and still feel secure.  From your Center, face your sexual self, overcome your family and cultural programming, burn karma, heal trauma and drop inhibitions.  If your love group encourages emotional release and reprogramming, emotions you experience in the love-in give you a chance to heal and learn. .   STATE DESIRES & LIMITATIONS .   Tell each person how you want to share sex with her or him.  You don’t have to justify a request; just state it.  Hear but don’t judge other’s requests. .   When you request, say, double penetration, your love-in lovers may or may not give you that.  If they ask you to do something you need not comply.  Offer each other alternative intimacies.  Match your sexual interactions with your comfort level.  Perhaps, refrain from coitus at first.  A man may, in some instances, ejaculate only with his mate but share oral sex with others in the group. .   Many woman, like me, were forced, raped, controlled, manipulated or dominated by male caretakers or lovers.  We may have attitudes that limit our sexuality. .   If you have primary partners present at the love-in, after each person expresses sexual wants and limits, tell your partners how you feel about their sexual desires for others and ask them to say how they feel about your sexual requests.  Reach consensus with your partners before engaging in sex with others. .   Always honor and respect the wants, desires and needs of your partners to limit how you relate to the others at the love-in.  Give your primary partners they want and thereby create space for their healing, space where they can feel safe.  Then they can open up later on in the current encounter or future episodes rather than retreat and shut down from this experience...

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