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MANAGE YOUR IMAGO: Web Radio, Article, youtubes

»Posted by on Jan 11, 2013 in Aquarian Radio, Articles, Education, Love, Radio, Relationships, Tantra | 0 comments

Web Radio with Janet and Sasha Lessin & Article by Sasha Lessin, Ph.D.                 Click, listen, then do the exercise below with a partner. Listen to internet radio with Aquarian Radio on Blog Talk Radio IMAGO HEALING: Based on Hendrix, H., 1988, Getting the Love You Want : A Guide for Couples   Your Imago’s a part of you, an internal energy system of which you’re unconscious; it’s opposite inner voices you ordinarily use to deal with the world. Opposites attract. You see reflections of this part in people that attract you. The Imago makes you seek a lover like it, so you can recognize that you, too, have, albeit in underdeveloped form, the very aspects that you find first so attractive, then so annoying in a lover. Your Imago focuses you on men or women that embody what you loved about your parents and prior lovers but also what you hated about them. A lover your Imago makes you select can also hurt you like Mom, Dad and your exes did. Your imago hopes, when it gets you and a lover to create scenes where she or he could hurt you again, she or he’ll do better than your parents and ex-lovers and thus heal the hurts of your past.   Facilitate a lover or a friend; take her or him through the cues below; he or she’s your Receiver. The Receiver seeks in you (or a lover you’ll represent) what s/he loved about his/her caregivers. You also represent what s/he hated about them. You can hurt him or her like they did or heal him or her when you love instead of hurt her or him. In the exercise below, your Receiver experiences his or her Inner Child, the voice of his or her emotional reality. Heal Hurts teaches the Receiver to defuse over-reactions to you or the lover you represent and to manage emotional reactions based on the Receiver’s past so s/he doesn’t distance you or his or her lovers now based on what happened before. S/he learns to release pent-up feelings and rescript once-appropriate but now-limiting rules.   HEAL HURTS   When the Receiver responds to the cues that comprise Heal Hurts, s/he also learns to say what s/he wants without masking reactions. S/he requests healing behavior from you and asks you to affirm his or her new openness.   Read cues in bold type aloud to the Receiver. Exception: read anything enclosed in square brackets [like this] silently. Sit facing her or him. Center yourself or move into a therapist role. Erect a psychic filter so you can avoid reacting to her or his content and stay present for her or his healing. Shield and center yourself in case s/he says you hurt, upset or frustrated her or him.   Where you need to respond, you’ll see this ###. Where you see ***, it’s her or his cue to respond: give her a few breaths’ time to do so. If s/he doesn’t respond, pause several breaths and read the cue again.   Tell me about an UPSET, frustration, problem or issue you have with me, with your current partner or with your last lover, using this formula. “When you … , I feel … and react by … to hide my fear of … because what I really want is …” [Example, if needed, “When you … mock me, I feel … hurt and angry and react by… withdrawing or attacking to hide my fear of … being humiliated because what I really want is … respect.”]   “When you … ***, [State upsetting behavior]   I feel … ***   and react by … ***   to hide my fear of … ***   because what I really want is …” ***   Is there anything else you’d like to say about that? *** [When Receiver’s said as much as you can accurately remember, read the next cue.]   Wait. Let me know if I’m getting you right. You’re saying … ### [Finish the sentence, summarizing in your own words (paraphrasing) what s/he said.] [If s/he corrects you, paraphrase her corrections and ask if you’ve got them right till s/he says, “Correct.”] [Continue paraphrasing and asking if there’s more until s/he fully expresses what s/he thinks and feels about what frustrates or upsets her. When Receiver says, “that’s all”, complete the next two sentences to her or him.]   You make sense, because … ### [Say how Receiver, if you put yourself into her or his head-space, makes sense.]   I imagine you must feel … ###   Is that what...

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What You Do In Tantra School

»Posted by on Jan 3, 2013 in All-Chakra Tantra, Love, Radio, Relationships, Spirituality, Tantra | 0 comments

1/3/13 WHAT YOU DO IN TANTRA SCHOOL, Part 1 Listen to internet radio with Aquarian Radio on Blog Talk Radio All-Chakra Tantra Web Radio Coaching, Counseling, Teaching:Your Right-livelihood Click arrow on embed to hear how Janet experienced Tantra School, and how you can teach people to love more. As she relates her experiences, Dr. Lessin offers home experiences for you as you listen, and expansions of the lessons on www.schooloftantra.com *** Tantra Teacher Training For LEVEL I CERTIFICATION OF COMPLETION BY CORRESPONDENCE, you take ninety hours or so (less is ok as long as you have satisfactory completions to e-mail (within four months) your answers to the questions in this book. Dr. Lessin responds by e-mail and may ask you to correct or expand some of your answers. The School then awards you a diploma as a School of Tantra Level 1 Certified Tantra Dakini, Daka, Lover or Practitioner (you choose the title).   When you complete Level 1, you can take Level 2 training. When you finish Level 2, you may proceed to Level 3. Each level requires about 90 hours homestudy.Level I Courses   Overview All-Chakra Tantra Peruse Primal Therapy Mend Mom’s Mistakes When You Mate Delete Dad’s Defects in Your Lovelife Listen Actively, Roleplay, Communicate Compassion Manage Imagos: Heal Hurts Survey Sexual Stories Dialogue Inner Voices, Witness & Center Satisfy Self, Suppress Squirt, Sustain Sex Worship Women Fathom Physical Form Learn Chakra Yoga Basics Level II Courses Practice Pujas–Personal, Pair and Poly Ponder Paths Embrace Blessings Gratify Guys Gestalt Authentic Contact Delve Dreams Heed Holotropic Breathing to Refine Relationships Rate Relations Fathom Finitude & Embrace Eternity to Ripen Relations & Sacralize Sex Learn From Lives Lapsed Cultivate Uplifting Communication Intermediate Chakra Yoga Level III Courses Lead Tantra Rituals Hone Hypnotherapy For Sacred Loving Train in Tantra Theosophy & Temple Transformation Technology Release Discarnates & Demonics Apply Existential Analysis Learn Living Love Guide Shamanic Journeywork Deprogram Abduction, Cult Inculcation and Black Project Imprints Facilitate Opposite Sex Student through All-Chakra Tantra Text Facilitate Same Sex Student through All-Chakra Tantra Text Facilitate Pairs through All-Chakra Tantra Text Practice Pranayama   Homework Submission   Respond in e-mail to each query or direction preceded by an asterisk *. Paste each numbered question and instruction (example: CTD 103:12) ) you respond to in an e-mail to Dr. Lessin at schooloftantra@aol.com. Indicate the email address to which you want Dr. Lessin to return his e-comments on your homework Send a few pages every week or so. Dr. Lessin indicates (in his e-mail reactions to what you send) which of your responses to consider further, correct and/or resubmit.   READ COURSE DESCRIPTIONS   Level 1 CTD 101 OVERVIEW ALL-CHAKRA TANTRA In All-Chakra Tantra, you center yourself and orchestrate your chakras–inner power plants that generate security, sexuality, power, love, communication, vision, and feelings of oneness with everything and everyone. You learn a chant and a ritual that teaches you how to waken each chakra.   CTD 102 PERUSE PRIMAL THERAPY Parents either meet need or fail to meet your needs for love as a child in a way you directly sense. If they truely love you, they hold you and encourage you to develop in your own direction at your own pace. Explore symbolic resonances of any love you lacked. Learn, for yourself and clients, how imprints rule your lives now, dictate the ecology of inner voices, dominate your bodies, project into dreams and direct spiritual aspirations. Probe imprints from conception, gestation, labor, delivery, childhood. Learn how to modify imprints to suit life today.   CTD 103 MEND MOM’S MISTAKES WHEN YOU MATE One aspect of our personalities, the Inner Brat, developed from our emotional pain and from adopting our parents’ worst traits. If Mom or the females that had charge of us when we were wee did not completely love and accept themselves and others, we copied this. She couldn’t model self-love and overflowing love to others if her parents, in turn, didn’t model it. When we’re unloving and self-defeating, we express negative love, some of which we adopted from her. In this class we, then those we facilitate learn to stop getting even with Mom, to lovingly divorce her, rise above her negative example, realize she’ll never meet our childish demand to love us with nothing asked in return. First we prosecute Mom: we emote anger for her example and for wrongs she did us. Then we put yourself in her place and get how she was molded into giving us negative attitudes by her parents’ attitudes. The class ends when we and our partners experience deep compassion, forgiveness and love toward our mothers. Then, in homework, you...

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Chakra 6: THINK, DREAM, INTUIT, CHANNEL, ENVISION by Sasha Lessin, Ph.D., Dean, School of Tantra

»Posted by on Jan 1, 2013 in All-Chakra Tantra, Articles, Love, Spirituality, Tantra | 0 comments

Chakra 6: THINK, DREAM, INTUIT, CHANNEL, ENVISION by Sasha Lessin, Ph.D., Dean, School of Tantra       CHAKRA SIX: BRAIN, INNER VISION, INTUITION, INTELLECT   The brow/third-eye chakra has two components: intellect and intuition. Humans are all psychic to some degree and by activating this chakra you open yourself to other worlds and visions. When you and your beloved join your minds and vision centers, you begin to see what they mean by the saying, “thinking is the best way to travel”.   Together, with the combined energy of your brow chakras, you’ll roam the universe and explore other dimensions of reality.   Merge completely with your lover; mind, body and soul. Combine your psychic powers, manifest and fulfill all your dreams. Let love rain down upon you, through you, envelope every molecule of your being and spread out to both of you to electrify every cell.    Surrender completely to each other and experience your oneness. Know that the consciousness that runs through your lover is but a part of yourself. You’re becoming super-charged, the kundalini is moving. Next stop, crown chakra. Prepare to give birth to your higher selves.The sixth (brain) brain chakra shows you visions, transmits intuitions and applies your logical intellect.   Chakra 6 gifts you with visions for yourself, for people you love, for your community and for the world. You and your beloveds intuit one another’s thoughts and feelings, as well as those of your children, parents, friends and others.   Access sixth chakra messages from your dreams, pastlives, fantasies, archetypes and hero-tales, especially as they apply to your intimate relationships.                                             PARTNER RELATING EXPERIENCE TO ACTIVATE CHAKRA 6, YOUR VISION CENTER   Sit comfortably facing a partner with whom you’ll explore your mind–the Ooo chakra. In this relating exercise, you’ll evoke your psychic abilities and archetypal understandings.   Hold your partner’’s hands, rest your foreheads together, gaze upward into each others’ eyes until, in your vision, your partner’s two eyes seem to merge together as a single eye, your partner’s third eye, so to appear.   Together, chant Ooo three times as you look upward into each other’s eyes. Imagine each Ooo tunes your psychic center. then say, these sentences to each other:   You think, intuit and envision for yourself. You think, intuit and envision for your beloveds. You think, intuit and envision for your community.   I think, intuit and envision for myself. I think, intuit and envision for my beloveds. I think, intuit and envision for my community.   Separate your heads but keep your gaze into each other’’s eyes.   Designate yourself or your partner the role of playing a psychic. If you’d your partner to enact a psychic and read you,point to yourself; if you want to read your partner, point to him or her.   PSYCHIC   If you’re going to be read (your partner’ll be the psychic giving you a reading), touch imaginary dime in your pocket.   Pyschic: identify with your psychic self, the part of you that intuits directly; the other opens her or his mind to the psychic.   Look, Psychic, past your partner’’s current face. See, in your mind’s eye, what your partner looked like as a newborn, as a child, as a young adult.   Image a pivotal childhood incident in her or his life.   Imagine your partner in a pastlife.   See your partner experience a pivotal incident in the pastlife you imagine for him or her.   Guess, if your partner developed best in the next ten years, how s/he’’d be. Tell your partner what you think about how she could be most fullfilled in a decade.   Now, Psychic, share what you imagined for your partner’’s      pivotal childhood experience,       pastlife,      perfected future.   FEEDBACK If you’re the partner who received the psychic’s reading, give your psychic feedback on accuracy of imagined childhood incident or situation.   Pay the imaginary dime to psychic.   Psychics: you took the dime; now paid professional psychics. Prior Episode Chakra 5: VITALIZE YOUR VOICE  Internet Radio & Articles on Expression Click the arrow in the embed above and hear our show. Chakra 5: VITALIZE YOUR VOICE ALL-CHAKRA TANTRA, walks you, step-by-step through exercises that teach you how to *Pare Parental Programs that limit your loving *Coordinate your Inner Voices to facilitate sensational sexalloving *Heal your lover’s hurts *Encourage female ejaculation and master male ejaculatory control All-Chakra Tantra: Synergized Sacred & Psychological Exercises for Inner Children, Voluptuaries, Heros, Romantics,...

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BLISS OF ALL-CHAKRA LOVEMAKING: Dr. Sasha & Janet Lessin Share on Internet Radio

»Posted by on Jan 1, 2013 in Articles, Guest Appearances, Radio, Relationships, Tantra | 1 comment

Janet & Dr.Sasha Lessin Share BLISS OF ALL-CHAKRA LOVEMAKING on Patti Taylor’s Internet Radio. The Lessins are the founders of the School of Tantra in Maui, Hawaii and in selected venues all over. They teach people to make love with their whole being, and to unblock any and all stuck places that get in the way of intimacy, personal power and full orgasmic presence. How to Really Love A Woman is available in hardcover, softcover and kindle on amazon.com. Click HERE to purchase. Learn what the chakras mean, and how to use them to create a beautiful lovemaking ceremony. Experience for yourself a dynamic process that Sasha and Janet use to generate connection using the seven chakras to send shivers of delight up your spine! You can feel the energy while listening, and better yet, also reproduce this in your own home with the handout the Lessins give.  Click HERE to listen to the radio show.   Then, tune in as Sasha gives Janet a reenactment of a full ejaculatory orgasm. Sasha very specifically goes stroke by stroke over exactly how he evokes every little nuance and pleasure from Janet’s clit and “cave”, as well as creating her “gushing” over the edge. You will get lots of specific ideas. Janet’s commentaries on the emotional impact of Sasha’s touches, and her vulnerability, are priceless, as are both of their spoken words to one another. Learn the kind of work the Lessins do to help others with issues such as sexual healing and emotional blocks to sex in their private counseling. This show models how easily true expanded love can be made! Plus, find out how they connect their work to planetary healing.   Schedule your own private in person, phone or Skype session now: $150 per hour  For the hearing impaired, here’s the script: Dr. Patti Taylor: Welcome to the Expanded Lovemaking show. I’m your host, Dr. Patti Taylor of Expanded Lovemaking dot com, and I teach you how to give and receive way more pleasure than you ever dreamed possible. Today on the show, we are talking about sharing the bliss of all chakra lovemaking with a partner. Usually, we have guests on talking about what they do. Today, we’re so lucky to have two experts on the show experiencing intimate yet powerful lovemaking and talking to us as they go through it themselves. I’ll be inviting you to join in energetically and to take back juicy knowledge and energy into your own lovemaking enjoyment. Our guests are Dr. Sasha Lessin, Dean of the School of Tantra, with his wife, Janet Lessin, Professor of Tantric Studies at the School of Tantra. So, welcome, Sasha and Janet Lessin. Janet Lessin: Aloha! Thank you for having us here. Sasha Lessin: Aloha. Dr. Patti Taylor: Hi, so, Dr. Sasha Lessin is a practicing psychotherapist and relationship counselor for over thirty years who brings many special skills to his counseling, including hypnotherapy, holotropic breathing, healing and past-life regressions, spirit releasement, and voice dialogue. Janet Lessin is an accomplished writer and teacher of Tantra. Sasha and Janet teach their diverse healing and spiritual paths together through their School of Tantra. They’re the authors of All Chakra Tantra and How to Really Love a Woman, amongst many other incredible books and things that they’ve created. They live in Maui, Hawaii, where they offer workshops, ceremonies, singles events, couples events, residential retreats, Tantra training of all sorts, and they also do counseling by phone. I think our listeners will love this show because, in a real life experience, you can feel the energy instead of just hearing about it. And I’ve always loved being able to model myself after experts. So today, then, we will find out all about All Chakra Tantra and have some demonstrations of the Lessins’ most requested teachings. Hopefully some of them, anyway. Including creating an intimate female ejaculatory lovemaking session. So let’s get started! Let’s find out a little bit about All Chakra Tantra, and I think we need to start out finding out what is a chakra. So hello, and can you tell us a little about All Chakra Tantra?   Sasha Lessin: Oh, I’d love to, and I’ll be posting this stuff on your site, Patti, so people can get it. Tantra, one of its meanings is “weaving.” It means weaving all levels of your awareness, and these levels we call “chakras.” These are things within you and between you and those you love. Think of the chakras with your body parts, the bottom of your torso, genitals is the next one, belly, heart, throat, brain, then the neocortex. And these are the parts...

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DOUBLE PENETRATION: A PATH TO ENLIGHTENMENT

»Posted by on Dec 16, 2012 in Articles, Love | 1 comment

DOUBLE PENETRATION: A PATH TO ENLIGHTENMENT by Janet Kira Lessin www.worldpolyamoryassociation.com . When you experience, as I did, two or more of your male poly lovers simultaneous entering you in tantric oneness, you open your inner stargate, touch the face of  God and remember your source. As you embrace two or even three magic wands, the  lingams (as we call penises) with your most sensitive inner sensual shrines, you  feel ecstasy, get total personal and transpersonal recall. You drop concepts of  physics, science and religion and instead zoom, as your multidimensional self,  through space and time. You and the beloveds ntering you merge with divinity,  source of all inchoate forms. Home, you experience everything everyone told you  as illusion and, at the same time, truth. . I had my double penetration satori the third night at a month-long love-in Sasha  and I hosted for nine lovers (five women and four men) on Maui. We’d filled half  our spacious living room with colorfully-covered mattresses. Two of the women  were new to us, but we’d vetted them carefully and knew we’d go deep with them. . Awkward at first, all nine of us eased into nude housekeeping and, by the third  evening, lovemaking. . Up to that third evening together, I’d shared some tantric breath, fondling,  kissing and genital honoring with some, but I mostly made passionate love with  Sash. We nine morphed from one kamasutra-like sexual configuration to the next. . As Sasha lay on his back, I lowered myself onto his wand. We held each other’s gaze, then tongue-kissed; our tongues stroked sacred erotic sectors in each  other’s mouths. . As I opened my cave and took him inside, hugging his wand with my yoni (vagina),  I again got who Sash and I truly are: ancient lovers in modern form. I saw, in  the mirror, my tiny, porcelain-like body draped over his deeply tanned athletic  form. . As we moved our pelvises in our eternal rhythm, Sash delicately tapped, then probed my rosebud (as we call the anal opening) with his finger, preparing me  for delights to come. My amrita (female ejaculate) flowed and we sang out in  the rising momentum of our lovemaking. . Then new hands, not Sasha’s, reverently caressed my bottom. I turned and saw  Woody–our beautiful slender, blond, long-time lover ask me with his eyes to  join us. “Yes, please,” I invited. . I leaned forward, breasts against Sasha’s chest. Woody, from behind me, eased  his wand to where Sasha and I joined genitals. I opened  my amrita-lubricated  yoni to let Woody’s wand snuggle in, a millimeter at a time, next to Sasha’s  Both lingams fully inside, I squeezed my pc muscles on them and they both  swelled within me. I felt the electricity of Woody’s and Sasha’s wands against each other as both gradually expanded deeper into me. I quivered as waves of  bliss radiated from my yoni where my guys’ penises pulsed. Waves of bliss  became a continuously pulse of pleasure for all three of us as Sasha and Woody’s penises reached my A- spot, the erogenous area next to my cervix. The  three of us lost our separate self-senses, experienced triadic consciousness. , I’d heard that some sages achieve pure grace, but never believed I could while  alive. But here I was in continuous euphoric bliss, one unending Oneness. . Allness engulfed not only Sash, Woody and me, but also the others on our giant  mattress. All nine of us shared this divine space and joined our sacred worship  of the magnificence of the Universe. I felt the cosmos open. Floor, walls,  ceiling, all physical things dissolved. We nine shed the time/space continuum  and stood in the stars. The void embraced us, absorbed us in the magnificence of creation and simultaneous stillness. Even the solar winds paused to hear the  divine prayer in the form of our loving congress. All that there is, was and  will be witnessed us as we reunited with Source. I was the orgasm, the  orgiastic energy, the divine spark that created us all. . You too can use group synergy, tantric lovemaking, polyamorous merging and  multiple penetration to achieve the state of pure Sex Magick necessary to take  women to this divine state needed to heal the world. With the intention of pure  love and respect for life and all consciousness, we can shift the Morphogenic  Field and create higher love and light. Together we stop war, pollution,  overpopulation, disease and hunger. Our natural state is loving oneness. . Multiple loving allows us to feel oneness and is instrumental in providing Earth  and all her peoples a civilized civilization that respects all life. Through  our love, we give...

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MY CLITORIS HAS WRITTEN A BOOK

»Posted by on Dec 3, 2012 in Books, Sexuality, Tantra | 4 comments

MY CLITORIS HAS WRITTEN A BOOK Are you kidding? What is this? The autobiography of a woman’s sexual organ? Who would even think of reading something so weird? Let alone writing it! . Well, remember ‘Vagina Monologues’? Remember how liberating it was to listen to all those women talk about their vaginas? This is different. It could be called: An Autonomous Woman’s Guide to the Healing and Awakening of Her Sacred Sexual Nature but I Clitoris is more to the point! It’s a kind of sexual re-education in poetry for women: youth, elders and everyone in between. The kind of education that can only come from the clitoris because only the clitoris knows what it’s like to be a clitoris! “The only organ in all known biology whose sole purpose is pleasure”. . Once you read I Clitoris and practice what ‘she’ preaches – you will be more empowered – not necessarily as the love goddess of the millennium, but as a real woman. One who knows her sexual self enough to share herself with dignity, passion and intelligence – when she chooses. . If you are a mother wondering how to talk sensitively to your daughter about teen pregnancy and sexual desire and how confusing it is to feel all that stuff let alone talk about it, you probably want to first read this yourself – and then share it with your daughter. . If you are a woman recovering from sexual abuse of any kind (and there are lots of kinds, believe me), then you probably need to read this and get a new sense of hope for yourself in a world where female violation is globally rampant. Most importantly, you will get some unique and profound (not to mention fun!) techniques for starting the process of self-healing enough that you can actually enjoy healthy relationships with men, or a partner of your choosing. If you are a guy wondering what is going on in the opposite sex, this book will give you some brand new insights about women and what makes them tick. I Clitoris will make you reconsider what lies between your thighs – in ways mostly sacred, sometimes profane; often sensual and definitely whimsical. . This book will make you laugh and maybe cry as you awaken to whole new understanding of Woman. It’s really easy to read even if the language is a bit unusual. And it is hand illustrated, making it quite beautiful. So far it is available as an e-book, but if you really want a hard copy, it can be done – individually printed just for you. You will then become the owner of a first edition of what promises to be a classic in the realm of enlightened sexuality. . Some Testimonials: . “Jaiia is a true bard, great teacher and an amazing artist who combines her wisdom and art to give us this delightful, informative and revolutionary book, with messages which, taken to heart, can uplift our species.” Sasha Lessin, Ph.D., Dean, School of Tantra . “I am reading slowly… I don’t want to finish it. How’s that for LOVING “I CLITORIS” … It’s a tactile piece of work, just as pearls love to be rubbed softly and with tenderness…I have printed it out and placed a copy on my altar” Caroline Muir – co-author of The Art of Conscious Loving and co-founder of DivineFeminine.com . “Having last weekend read this book I want to thank you – it has utterly transformed the way in which I view myself. I will never be a lesser person in my own eyes. I will from now on always be greater than the person I was before your words enlightened me to who and what I really am. A wonderful woman. I absolutely encourage all women to give this gift to themselves. With deep love and profound respect” Bebiella Nielsen Australia . I CLITORIS….. Brave, Bold, Beneficial and Beautiful! It needed to be written and no one better to write it than the inspiring and wondrous singer Jaiia. This book will make some of you blush but want to read more, it will bring back memories of parental upbringing, women’s mysteries and pleasure. It will shock some, amaze others, awaken those ready to read and in the end it is a very play on words which have created something we all know about but not many understand fully. Treat yourself, or a loved one, buy it and enjoy it. Diane McCann, Facilitator of The Goddess Within and Tantra for Couples. Australia So who wrote this? Well… Jaiia Earthschild is an artist of sound and word who...

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