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MANAGE YOUR IMAGO: Web Radio, Article, youtubes

»Posted by on Jan 11, 2013 in Aquarian Radio, Articles, Education, Love, Radio, Relationships, Tantra | 0 comments

Web Radio with Janet and Sasha Lessin & Article by Sasha Lessin, Ph.D.                 Click, listen, then do the exercise below with a partner. Listen to internet radio with Aquarian Radio on Blog Talk Radio IMAGO HEALING: Based on Hendrix, H., 1988, Getting the Love You Want : A Guide for Couples   Your Imago’s a part of you, an internal energy system of which you’re unconscious; it’s opposite inner voices you ordinarily use to deal with the world. Opposites attract. You see reflections of this part in people that attract you. The Imago makes you seek a lover like it, so you can recognize that you, too, have, albeit in underdeveloped form, the very aspects that you find first so attractive, then so annoying in a lover. Your Imago focuses you on men or women that embody what you loved about your parents and prior lovers but also what you hated about them. A lover your Imago makes you select can also hurt you like Mom, Dad and your exes did. Your imago hopes, when it gets you and a lover to create scenes where she or he could hurt you again, she or he’ll do better than your parents and ex-lovers and thus heal the hurts of your past.   Facilitate a lover or a friend; take her or him through the cues below; he or she’s your Receiver. The Receiver seeks in you (or a lover you’ll represent) what s/he loved about his/her caregivers. You also represent what s/he hated about them. You can hurt him or her like they did or heal him or her when you love instead of hurt her or him. In the exercise below, your Receiver experiences his or her Inner Child, the voice of his or her emotional reality. Heal Hurts teaches the Receiver to defuse over-reactions to you or the lover you represent and to manage emotional reactions based on the Receiver’s past so s/he doesn’t distance you or his or her lovers now based on what happened before. S/he learns to release pent-up feelings and rescript once-appropriate but now-limiting rules.   HEAL HURTS   When the Receiver responds to the cues that comprise Heal Hurts, s/he also learns to say what s/he wants without masking reactions. S/he requests healing behavior from you and asks you to affirm his or her new openness.   Read cues in bold type aloud to the Receiver. Exception: read anything enclosed in square brackets [like this] silently. Sit facing her or him. Center yourself or move into a therapist role. Erect a psychic filter so you can avoid reacting to her or his content and stay present for her or his healing. Shield and center yourself in case s/he says you hurt, upset or frustrated her or him.   Where you need to respond, you’ll see this ###. Where you see ***, it’s her or his cue to respond: give her a few breaths’ time to do so. If s/he doesn’t respond, pause several breaths and read the cue again.   Tell me about an UPSET, frustration, problem or issue you have with me, with your current partner or with your last lover, using this formula. “When you … , I feel … and react by … to hide my fear of … because what I really want is …” [Example, if needed, “When you … mock me, I feel … hurt and angry and react by… withdrawing or attacking to hide my fear of … being humiliated because what I really want is … respect.”]   “When you … ***, [State upsetting behavior]   I feel … ***   and react by … ***   to hide my fear of … ***   because what I really want is …” ***   Is there anything else you’d like to say about that? *** [When Receiver’s said as much as you can accurately remember, read the next cue.]   Wait. Let me know if I’m getting you right. You’re saying … ### [Finish the sentence, summarizing in your own words (paraphrasing) what s/he said.] [If s/he corrects you, paraphrase her corrections and ask if you’ve got them right till s/he says, “Correct.”] [Continue paraphrasing and asking if there’s more until s/he fully expresses what s/he thinks and feels about what frustrates or upsets her. When Receiver says, “that’s all”, complete the next two sentences to her or him.]   You make sense, because … ### [Say how Receiver, if you put yourself into her or his head-space, makes sense.]   I imagine you must feel … ###   Is that what...

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What You Do In Tantra School

»Posted by on Jan 3, 2013 in All-Chakra Tantra, Love, Radio, Relationships, Spirituality, Tantra | 0 comments

1/3/13 WHAT YOU DO IN TANTRA SCHOOL, Part 1 Listen to internet radio with Aquarian Radio on Blog Talk Radio All-Chakra Tantra Web Radio Coaching, Counseling, Teaching:Your Right-livelihood Click arrow on embed to hear how Janet experienced Tantra School, and how you can teach people to love more. As she relates her experiences, Dr. Lessin offers home experiences for you as you listen, and expansions of the lessons on www.schooloftantra.com *** Tantra Teacher Training For LEVEL I CERTIFICATION OF COMPLETION BY CORRESPONDENCE, you take ninety hours or so (less is ok as long as you have satisfactory completions to e-mail (within four months) your answers to the questions in this book. Dr. Lessin responds by e-mail and may ask you to correct or expand some of your answers. The School then awards you a diploma as a School of Tantra Level 1 Certified Tantra Dakini, Daka, Lover or Practitioner (you choose the title).   When you complete Level 1, you can take Level 2 training. When you finish Level 2, you may proceed to Level 3. Each level requires about 90 hours homestudy.Level I Courses   Overview All-Chakra Tantra Peruse Primal Therapy Mend Mom’s Mistakes When You Mate Delete Dad’s Defects in Your Lovelife Listen Actively, Roleplay, Communicate Compassion Manage Imagos: Heal Hurts Survey Sexual Stories Dialogue Inner Voices, Witness & Center Satisfy Self, Suppress Squirt, Sustain Sex Worship Women Fathom Physical Form Learn Chakra Yoga Basics Level II Courses Practice Pujas–Personal, Pair and Poly Ponder Paths Embrace Blessings Gratify Guys Gestalt Authentic Contact Delve Dreams Heed Holotropic Breathing to Refine Relationships Rate Relations Fathom Finitude & Embrace Eternity to Ripen Relations & Sacralize Sex Learn From Lives Lapsed Cultivate Uplifting Communication Intermediate Chakra Yoga Level III Courses Lead Tantra Rituals Hone Hypnotherapy For Sacred Loving Train in Tantra Theosophy & Temple Transformation Technology Release Discarnates & Demonics Apply Existential Analysis Learn Living Love Guide Shamanic Journeywork Deprogram Abduction, Cult Inculcation and Black Project Imprints Facilitate Opposite Sex Student through All-Chakra Tantra Text Facilitate Same Sex Student through All-Chakra Tantra Text Facilitate Pairs through All-Chakra Tantra Text Practice Pranayama   Homework Submission   Respond in e-mail to each query or direction preceded by an asterisk *. Paste each numbered question and instruction (example: CTD 103:12) ) you respond to in an e-mail to Dr. Lessin at schooloftantra@aol.com. Indicate the email address to which you want Dr. Lessin to return his e-comments on your homework Send a few pages every week or so. Dr. Lessin indicates (in his e-mail reactions to what you send) which of your responses to consider further, correct and/or resubmit.   READ COURSE DESCRIPTIONS   Level 1 CTD 101 OVERVIEW ALL-CHAKRA TANTRA In All-Chakra Tantra, you center yourself and orchestrate your chakras–inner power plants that generate security, sexuality, power, love, communication, vision, and feelings of oneness with everything and everyone. You learn a chant and a ritual that teaches you how to waken each chakra.   CTD 102 PERUSE PRIMAL THERAPY Parents either meet need or fail to meet your needs for love as a child in a way you directly sense. If they truely love you, they hold you and encourage you to develop in your own direction at your own pace. Explore symbolic resonances of any love you lacked. Learn, for yourself and clients, how imprints rule your lives now, dictate the ecology of inner voices, dominate your bodies, project into dreams and direct spiritual aspirations. Probe imprints from conception, gestation, labor, delivery, childhood. Learn how to modify imprints to suit life today.   CTD 103 MEND MOM’S MISTAKES WHEN YOU MATE One aspect of our personalities, the Inner Brat, developed from our emotional pain and from adopting our parents’ worst traits. If Mom or the females that had charge of us when we were wee did not completely love and accept themselves and others, we copied this. She couldn’t model self-love and overflowing love to others if her parents, in turn, didn’t model it. When we’re unloving and self-defeating, we express negative love, some of which we adopted from her. In this class we, then those we facilitate learn to stop getting even with Mom, to lovingly divorce her, rise above her negative example, realize she’ll never meet our childish demand to love us with nothing asked in return. First we prosecute Mom: we emote anger for her example and for wrongs she did us. Then we put yourself in her place and get how she was molded into giving us negative attitudes by her parents’ attitudes. The class ends when we and our partners experience deep compassion, forgiveness and love toward our mothers. Then, in homework, you...

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Chakra 6: THINK, DREAM, INTUIT, CHANNEL, ENVISION by Sasha Lessin, Ph.D., Dean, School of Tantra

»Posted by on Jan 1, 2013 in All-Chakra Tantra, Articles, Love, Spirituality, Tantra | 0 comments

Chakra 6: THINK, DREAM, INTUIT, CHANNEL, ENVISION by Sasha Lessin, Ph.D., Dean, School of Tantra       CHAKRA SIX: BRAIN, INNER VISION, INTUITION, INTELLECT   The brow/third-eye chakra has two components: intellect and intuition. Humans are all psychic to some degree and by activating this chakra you open yourself to other worlds and visions. When you and your beloved join your minds and vision centers, you begin to see what they mean by the saying, “thinking is the best way to travel”.   Together, with the combined energy of your brow chakras, you’ll roam the universe and explore other dimensions of reality.   Merge completely with your lover; mind, body and soul. Combine your psychic powers, manifest and fulfill all your dreams. Let love rain down upon you, through you, envelope every molecule of your being and spread out to both of you to electrify every cell.    Surrender completely to each other and experience your oneness. Know that the consciousness that runs through your lover is but a part of yourself. You’re becoming super-charged, the kundalini is moving. Next stop, crown chakra. Prepare to give birth to your higher selves.The sixth (brain) brain chakra shows you visions, transmits intuitions and applies your logical intellect.   Chakra 6 gifts you with visions for yourself, for people you love, for your community and for the world. You and your beloveds intuit one another’s thoughts and feelings, as well as those of your children, parents, friends and others.   Access sixth chakra messages from your dreams, pastlives, fantasies, archetypes and hero-tales, especially as they apply to your intimate relationships.                                             PARTNER RELATING EXPERIENCE TO ACTIVATE CHAKRA 6, YOUR VISION CENTER   Sit comfortably facing a partner with whom you’ll explore your mind–the Ooo chakra. In this relating exercise, you’ll evoke your psychic abilities and archetypal understandings.   Hold your partner’’s hands, rest your foreheads together, gaze upward into each others’ eyes until, in your vision, your partner’s two eyes seem to merge together as a single eye, your partner’s third eye, so to appear.   Together, chant Ooo three times as you look upward into each other’s eyes. Imagine each Ooo tunes your psychic center. then say, these sentences to each other:   You think, intuit and envision for yourself. You think, intuit and envision for your beloveds. You think, intuit and envision for your community.   I think, intuit and envision for myself. I think, intuit and envision for my beloveds. I think, intuit and envision for my community.   Separate your heads but keep your gaze into each other’’s eyes.   Designate yourself or your partner the role of playing a psychic. If you’d your partner to enact a psychic and read you,point to yourself; if you want to read your partner, point to him or her.   PSYCHIC   If you’re going to be read (your partner’ll be the psychic giving you a reading), touch imaginary dime in your pocket.   Pyschic: identify with your psychic self, the part of you that intuits directly; the other opens her or his mind to the psychic.   Look, Psychic, past your partner’’s current face. See, in your mind’s eye, what your partner looked like as a newborn, as a child, as a young adult.   Image a pivotal childhood incident in her or his life.   Imagine your partner in a pastlife.   See your partner experience a pivotal incident in the pastlife you imagine for him or her.   Guess, if your partner developed best in the next ten years, how s/he’’d be. Tell your partner what you think about how she could be most fullfilled in a decade.   Now, Psychic, share what you imagined for your partner’’s      pivotal childhood experience,       pastlife,      perfected future.   FEEDBACK If you’re the partner who received the psychic’s reading, give your psychic feedback on accuracy of imagined childhood incident or situation.   Pay the imaginary dime to psychic.   Psychics: you took the dime; now paid professional psychics. Prior Episode Chakra 5: VITALIZE YOUR VOICE  Internet Radio & Articles on Expression Click the arrow in the embed above and hear our show. Chakra 5: VITALIZE YOUR VOICE ALL-CHAKRA TANTRA, walks you, step-by-step through exercises that teach you how to *Pare Parental Programs that limit your loving *Coordinate your Inner Voices to facilitate sensational sexalloving *Heal your lover’s hurts *Encourage female ejaculation and master male ejaculatory control All-Chakra Tantra: Synergized Sacred & Psychological Exercises for Inner Children, Voluptuaries, Heros, Romantics,...

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DOUBLE PENETRATION: A PATH TO ENLIGHTENMENT

»Posted by on Dec 16, 2012 in Articles, Love | 1 comment

DOUBLE PENETRATION: A PATH TO ENLIGHTENMENT by Janet Kira Lessin www.worldpolyamoryassociation.com . When you experience, as I did, two or more of your male poly lovers simultaneous entering you in tantric oneness, you open your inner stargate, touch the face of  God and remember your source. As you embrace two or even three magic wands, the  lingams (as we call penises) with your most sensitive inner sensual shrines, you  feel ecstasy, get total personal and transpersonal recall. You drop concepts of  physics, science and religion and instead zoom, as your multidimensional self,  through space and time. You and the beloveds ntering you merge with divinity,  source of all inchoate forms. Home, you experience everything everyone told you  as illusion and, at the same time, truth. . I had my double penetration satori the third night at a month-long love-in Sasha  and I hosted for nine lovers (five women and four men) on Maui. We’d filled half  our spacious living room with colorfully-covered mattresses. Two of the women  were new to us, but we’d vetted them carefully and knew we’d go deep with them. . Awkward at first, all nine of us eased into nude housekeeping and, by the third  evening, lovemaking. . Up to that third evening together, I’d shared some tantric breath, fondling,  kissing and genital honoring with some, but I mostly made passionate love with  Sash. We nine morphed from one kamasutra-like sexual configuration to the next. . As Sasha lay on his back, I lowered myself onto his wand. We held each other’s gaze, then tongue-kissed; our tongues stroked sacred erotic sectors in each  other’s mouths. . As I opened my cave and took him inside, hugging his wand with my yoni (vagina),  I again got who Sash and I truly are: ancient lovers in modern form. I saw, in  the mirror, my tiny, porcelain-like body draped over his deeply tanned athletic  form. . As we moved our pelvises in our eternal rhythm, Sash delicately tapped, then probed my rosebud (as we call the anal opening) with his finger, preparing me  for delights to come. My amrita (female ejaculate) flowed and we sang out in  the rising momentum of our lovemaking. . Then new hands, not Sasha’s, reverently caressed my bottom. I turned and saw  Woody–our beautiful slender, blond, long-time lover ask me with his eyes to  join us. “Yes, please,” I invited. . I leaned forward, breasts against Sasha’s chest. Woody, from behind me, eased  his wand to where Sasha and I joined genitals. I opened  my amrita-lubricated  yoni to let Woody’s wand snuggle in, a millimeter at a time, next to Sasha’s  Both lingams fully inside, I squeezed my pc muscles on them and they both  swelled within me. I felt the electricity of Woody’s and Sasha’s wands against each other as both gradually expanded deeper into me. I quivered as waves of  bliss radiated from my yoni where my guys’ penises pulsed. Waves of bliss  became a continuously pulse of pleasure for all three of us as Sasha and Woody’s penises reached my A- spot, the erogenous area next to my cervix. The  three of us lost our separate self-senses, experienced triadic consciousness. , I’d heard that some sages achieve pure grace, but never believed I could while  alive. But here I was in continuous euphoric bliss, one unending Oneness. . Allness engulfed not only Sash, Woody and me, but also the others on our giant  mattress. All nine of us shared this divine space and joined our sacred worship  of the magnificence of the Universe. I felt the cosmos open. Floor, walls,  ceiling, all physical things dissolved. We nine shed the time/space continuum  and stood in the stars. The void embraced us, absorbed us in the magnificence of creation and simultaneous stillness. Even the solar winds paused to hear the  divine prayer in the form of our loving congress. All that there is, was and  will be witnessed us as we reunited with Source. I was the orgasm, the  orgiastic energy, the divine spark that created us all. . You too can use group synergy, tantric lovemaking, polyamorous merging and  multiple penetration to achieve the state of pure Sex Magick necessary to take  women to this divine state needed to heal the world. With the intention of pure  love and respect for life and all consciousness, we can shift the Morphogenic  Field and create higher love and light. Together we stop war, pollution,  overpopulation, disease and hunger. Our natural state is loving oneness. . Multiple loving allows us to feel oneness and is instrumental in providing Earth  and all her peoples a civilized civilization that respects all life. Through  our love, we give...

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Chakra 5: VITALIZE YOUR VOICE Internet Radio & Articles on Expression

»Posted by on Nov 13, 2012 in Love, Relationships, Tantra | 0 comments

Chakra 5: VITALIZE YOUR VOICE  Internet Radio & Articles on Expression Click the arrow in the embed above and hear our show. Chakra 5: VITALIZE YOUR VOICE . Article: Chakra 5: Vitalize Your Voice : SPEAK OR STAY SILENT, BUT SING by Sasha Lessin, Ph.D., Dean, School of Tantra . 5th Chakra: throat, expression.  Hear each of your inner expressive voices as well as any voices that suppress expression. . For situations you face, let these voices of expression and of privacy speak to you internally. Ask them, . What do you want? . What needs drive what you want? . How do you aid me?  . What do you, in this situation, offer lovers and humanity? . Then you, the whole person, can choose what, when and how to show (or conceal) your inner voices to other people. . Honor your beloveds’ many voices too. . Speak authentically, kindly & helpfully. . Sing. . Sanctify oral sex. . *** . Activate Your Throat Chakra . Hands at throat, three times, chant ham.  With each ham you chant, imagine the bud of a blue rose appears in your throat.  And as you say ham, let the blue rose open and expand your options of talk or silence. . Hear, in your mind’s ear, your throat singing your song, a song that reminds you of who you are. . Cradle a partner’s throat in your hands. . Chant ham three times to each other.  Or chant it to the mirror. . Take turns; SING your favorite songs–songs that expresses who you are. . TICKLE each other till you giggle; this, too, opens your throat chakra. . Finish this sentence with each other as many times as you can: “YOU DON’T KNOW I ….”  . Weigh the risk of your partner’s probable reaction in the following completions against the possibility of more intimacy.  You may want a neutral witness to help you through any upset you fear the candor might trigger. . Notice WHAT YOU DREAD DIVULGING; magnify this fear and finish: “I have secrets so bad that if you knew you’d ….”  . “It’s hardest to tell you …. [Complete] . “I risk our relation by revealing ….”  [Complete] , ENACT YOUR NARRATOR . Personify your communicative chakra, the subself that shares or suppresses what you say.  . Relate your concerns about what your person reveals.  .   What do you need to feel safe to express authentically?  . If you dictated the truth to the world, how would it change?? . EXPRESS YOURSELF AUTHENTIC TO THE DEGREE YOU CHOOSE Take turns answering these questions to someone you’d like to know better and whom you’d like to know you better. Before I die, I intend to … The biggest mistake I ever made was … The biggest challenges in my life now are … I’d be willing to die for … My two most treasured memories of love are … The things that make those I live with a pleasure to live with are … The best and worst things about my sex life are … The features I like most and the ones I like least about my body are … One sexual fantasy I’d like fulfilled is … What I like least about you is … What I like least about you is (or was) also my trait in this way… What I like least about myself is … What I like most about you is … What I like most about myself is … If I could change you one way, I’d … I’d modify myself by …. You don’t know I …   All the above’s excerpt from ALL-CHAKRA TANTRA, available at http://www.schooloftantra.net/Store/Books/AllChakraTantra.htm *** Prior radio  : Chakra 4 (Love) THE HEART CHAKRA Listen to internet radio with Aquarian Radio on Blog Talk...

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Chakra 4: GIVE,GET, BE LOVE Internet Radio & Articles by Sasha Lessin, Ph.D.

»Posted by on Nov 3, 2012 in Love, Polyamory, Relationships, Tantra | 1 comment

Chakra 4: GIVE,GET, BE LOVE Internet Radio & Articles . Listen to internet radio with Aquarian Radio on Blog Talk Radio   Click the arrow in the embed above and hear our show.  Chakra 4, Give,Get, Be Love . . HEED YOUR HEART: Exercises with Tantric Partner by Sasha Lessin, Ph.D., Dean, School of Tantra . Do these exercises and you and your partner will open up your heart chakras and lovingly integrate your reactions to all your own inner voices, to each other and to the world. . Face each other in the Open Heart Pose Below: . Left legs forward, stretch your arms back, palms toward one another.  Open your chests to each other. .   Close your eyes.  Pretend you each STAND BEFORE SOMEONE you love–other than each other.  Beam love to the person you imagine before you. .   Finish the sentence in italics below aloud as you imagine a person you love faces you. You and s/he each speak at the same time to the persons you imagine (ignore for now what your partner vocalizes): “Here’s what I love about you ….”  (Remember, this is the person you imagine, not your actual partner; you’ll get to your partner in a bit). .   Imagine the person you visualize sends love to you; receive it. . Eyes still closed, broadcast love from your heart to your family, community and humanity.   . Open your eyes.  Beam love to each other.   . Access what you love about each other.  Then sit together.   . Say whom you saw and felt love toward when you had your eyes closed.  Share what you thought and felt when you sent love to her or him. .   Tell each other what you thought and felt when you sent love to your family.   . What did you think and feel when you sent love to the world? .   Complete, to each other: “WHAT I LOVE ABOUT YOU IS ….”.   EMBODY AFFECTION . Become your Love Chakra. Say what you want.  Say why you want that. .   How would your person live if you, Romantic subself, were the sole voice she or he heeded. . How do you balance your Giver and Taker subselves. . Relate what you’d do if you dictated love on Earth. .   *** . APPRECIATE  PLEASER & TAKER TOO: Center your Heart Center When You Both Give & Get Love .   Read the cues in bold below aloud to her; give her a few minutes to respond to each. .   Sit on this cushion–the place for your CENTER, where you  hear your inner selves. .   Tell me about your Pleaser, your nice part, that makes other people happy. .   What’s your Pleaser voice like? . What does it do for you. . Shift to a new position, a seat for PLEASER. . Hi.  Enact Pleaser.  Say what you do for    [partner’s name]. . When did your life as distinct Pleaser subself start? . What’s your history,Pleaser? . How do you protectherfrom  hurt, fear and insecurity. . What have you contributed to her or him? . Say what you’d like her to acknowledge and appreciate. . Thanks.  Let her return to Center position. . Hi, Center.  Tell me about your TAKER, the part Critic calls “Selfish”, the subself that wants you to have what you want. . Move to a seat for that self.  Be Taker.  Say, Taker, what you do for her or him. .   Say the main times you emerged, times you helped her or him. .   What would you like her or him to appreciate you for? . Relate when, nowadays, Taker, you’d like her or him to assert needs better.   . How, from your perspective, does she or he do in meeting her or his sexual, assertive and creative needs? .   Thanks, I liked talking.  Now let [partner’s name] return to CENTER. . Now move again; stand behind me, in the WITNESS position.  I review what your Pleaser and Taker said. ###[Summarize what you heard] .   Stand.  Embrace impartially.  As Witness, you don’t decide anything.  You just sense each voice’s energy as I tell about them. . [Say what you noticed about her Pleaser and Taker] Nod, “Yes,” when you feel them. . Return to the CENTER cushion. Experience the middle.  Feel and appreciate Pleaser and Taker. . Say what you learned. . CONSTELLATE  INNER LOVER . “Embody your Ideal Lover.  As Ideal  Lover, describe your existence–what you feel, think and do for your woman or man, how you regard her or him, what you do to help her...

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