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WAND WORK FOR EMOTIONAL DEPTH, EJACULATORY CONTROL By Sasha Alex Lessin, Ph.D., Dean, School of Tantra

»Posted by on Dec 12, 2018 in Articles, Books, Counseling, Education, Love, Relationships | 0 comments

WAND WORK FOR EMOTIONAL DEPTH, EJACULATORY CONTROL By Sasha Alex Lessin, Ph.D., Dean, School of Tantra

Dr. Lessin: Janet received this email from a female correspondent I’ll call Sally. Janet referred Sally’s email to me for comment. THE EMAIL Sally: “I had questions regarding the Lingam [penis] massage I have been attempting on a partner and hoping to improve. “I want to know about incorporating oral/fellatio to a lingam massage. We find it difficult to withhold ejaculation during the massage–something we should better control. Dr. L: Try this, from TEACH TANTRA:              Give all-chakra satisfaction to your partner; the experiences below, gives him support and emotional access to bring sex and spirit together for you both when you make love.             Giver, reserve four hours with your Receiver in a lovely, peaceful, private sanctuary.  Arrange music, flowers, incense, food, your costume and your body to delight him.  Then do the exercise, “Put Him in the Mudra”. PUT HIM IN THE MUDRA             Lie on your sides; face each other.                         Put your right hands on each other’s hearts             Put your left hands on one another’s perinewums.  Chant “Lam” three times; tighten your rosebud sphincter after each.  Send energy from your base chakra to his and say, together, “I wish you health, safety and security”.             Move your left hands to each others’ genitals, send each other sexual energy and chant “ Vam” three times and squeeze your PC muscles.  Send each other sexual energy with each “Vam”.  Say, with each other, “I wish you sensual delight and sexual satisfaction.”             Raise left hands to each others’ bellies.  Chant “Ram” three times and, with each “Ram,” send empowerment rays through your hands into each others’ bellies.   Say, to one another, “May you take what’s yours in life.”                        Put your left hands on each others’ right hands, at each others’ hearts.  Send love and chant “Yam” together three times.  Say, “I love you; I receive your love.”                                                            Lift left hands to the back of each other’s throats.  Chant “Ham” three times together and feel the throats vibrate.  Hear (in your mind’s ear) words you’d say, songs you’d sing each other.  Make a sound together.  Say, “Tell your truth.”             Put your foreheads together, look in each other’s eyes, place left hands each others’ heads.  Chant “Ooo” three times and experience psychic contact.  See your other lives together.  Say, “You know.”             Put your left hands on each others’ crowns and chant “Mmm” three times.  Picture radiant energy flashes between your crowns.  Fantasize that you meld into a single spiritual being with two complementary parts–not just a dyad, but a two-part spirit, a synergad.  Say, “We are one.” LESSONS LEARNED WITH LOVERS          Lie on your back.   Relax.   [Give him time]  Put my left hand on your heart, my right on your lingum (penis) and jewels (testicles) and put your hands atop mine.   Close your eyes.  [Take three deep breaths, imagine sending energy into his heart through your right hand, receiving it through your left.]  Ok, let’s gently release our hands; lower them.             Feel your genitals–your sexual chakra; notice your heart, your love chakra.                                    Reconsider your lovers from days gone. Tell me their names, I’ll write them.  ***             Lover 1 [Write it]             Lover 2             Lover 3             Lover 4             Etc.                   For each lover on this list,  starting with LOVER 1:                                                                     a) Tell me the YEARS you were involved and how old you were, *** [Write them next to the name indicated] b) Say WHERE you were when you related to her, the key EVENTS in your relationship ***  [Take notes next to the name indicated] c) Tell me your EMOTIONAL AND SEXUAL SHARING with each. ***    d) Tell the DEVELOPMENTAL TASKS YOU COMPLETED with each. e) Summarize the events, sexual and emotional sharing and the developmental tasks we’ve experienced together.  *** f ) Imagine  [Lover 1: Say her or his name] is before you.  Toward her, express your LONGINGS, what you wished you could have shared with her or him. ***  g) Express to her or him any WITHHELD FEELINGS, things you didn’t get to say.***    h) Tell her or him your RESENTMENTS ***  i) As you imagine her or him before you, tell her or him  your DEMANDS, what you really wanted from her or him ***         j) Say, to her or him, your APPRECIATIONS ***       k) Tell her or him what you REGRET. Tell her what you FORGIVE her or...

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ALL-CHAKRA LOVEMAKING PODCAST

»Posted by on Jun 11, 2018 in Articles, Chakras | 0 comments

with Dr. Sasha Lessin and Janet Lessin, authors of ‘Tantra for All Chakras”, “Teach Lovers Tantra” & “How to Really Love a Woman”   http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/230-expanded-lovemaking/episodes/3493-sharing-bliss-chakra-lovemaking-dr-sasha   In this show, hear Dr. Patti Taylor talks to Dr. Sasha Lessin and his wife, Janet Lessin, about All-Chakra Tantra.   The Lessins are the founders of the School of Tantra in Maui, Hawaii, where they teach people to make love with their whole being, and to unblock any and all stuck places that get in the way of intimacy, personal power and full orgasmic presence.   Learn what the chakras mean, and how to use them to create a beautiful lovemaking ceremony.   Experience for yourself a dynamic process that Sasha and Janet use to generate connection using the seven chakras to send shivers of delight up your spine! You can feel the energy while listening, and better yet, also reproduce this in your own home with the handout the Lessins give.   Then, tune in as Sasha gives Janet a reenactment of a full ejaculatory orgasm.  Sasha very specifically goes stroke by stroke over exactly how he evokes every little nuance and pleasure from Janet’s clit and “cave”, as well as creating her “gushing” over the edge. You will get lots of specific ideas.   Janet’s commentaries on the emotional impact of Sasha’s touches, and her vulnerability, are priceless, as are both of their spoken words to one another.   Learn the kind of work the Lessins do to help others with issues such as sexual healing and emotional blocks to sex in their private counseling. This show models how easily true expanded love can be made! Plus, find out how they connect their work to planetary healing.   Learn how to love this way; read paperback, “’Tantra for All Chakras,” available at amazon.com (https://www.thriftbooks.com/w/tantra-for-all-chakras_sasha-alex-lessin-ph-d/18485236/#isbn=1548102830&idiq=25573391)...

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PROSPER THIS YEAR

»Posted by on Dec 17, 2017 in Articles | 0 comments

PROSPER THIS YEAR

by Sasha Alex Lessin, Ph.D. Review the steps on your life’s path.  See, and draw lifemaps that show where you’ve been, what you learned and where you head. Discover and reinforce the warp, woof and golden threads of your life fabric.  Re-assess what you declined and maybe bring it into what you weave today.  Draw life maps, purge negatives, embrace positives. You purge programs and attitudes that block your heart’s desires. FIND YOUR PURPOSE Set out a large piece of paper and crayons. Close your eyes.  See the landscape of your life; include your love life.  See the roads you took.  Draw what you saw on a ROADMAP OF YOUR LIFE Draw roadblocks, dangerous curves, detours, fast lanes on your highways, freeways, back roads, toll roads and spirit journeys. When you finish the drawing, view the regions??physical, emotional, social and spiritual??you traveled.  More comes to you as you look at your map; add it. Close your eyes.  Imagine your stand below a peak that symbols your HIGHEST PURPOSE.  Your experiences prepared you to climb to the PEAK, fulfill your missions, find you purpose, meet your destiny.  As you climb you create several great things at subpeaks long your trail.  At each subpeak, a luminescent figure of a more advanced version of the present you greets you.  Move your awareness behind the figure’s eyes.  From her or his eyes remote view what you created at that subpeak.  Then climb to the ultimate peak. Draw you as you trek to your peak.  Show your past, present and future.  Show what got you to ascend.  Identify regions, travel conditions and destinations.  Put your drawing on a wall; view it daily for a week and note what you learn.  . REVIEW LIFE FROM RIPE OLD AGE [Reference: Progoff, I., 1975, At a Journal Workshop] Have a partner take you through the cues in bold type below, then take your partner through them.  Write your responses and summarize your partner’s. Where you see ***, you, then your partner, responds] On your back, eyes closed, relax.  Take 5 deep breaths. ***   Imagine you lived to a healthy OLD AGE–way older than your present years–and it’s your birthday today.  Which birthday, how many years have you worn your present body on this future birthday? ***    Imagine you’ve had your druthers.  You lived right.  You’ve developed your talents.  Your conscience guided you.  Today, you share your birthday with people.  Tell them how your life, so far, has been FULFILLING.  ***  Tell them what you learned about RELATIONSHIPS. ***    Relate what you loved about your LIFESTYLE through the years. ***  Say the MOTTOS that moved you. ***    Tell them what FASCINATED you. ***      What did you CREATE? ***  Tell your guests what, now that you’re at this ripe old age birthday party, what TALENTS you’ve developed so far. ***  Summarize the philosophy and the PRINCIPLES you lived so well so many years. ***     What GOALS did you reach? ***    Say how your CONSCIENCE guided you. ***    What COMMITMENTS led to your good outcomes. ***    If you could achieve ONE MORE THING in this life, what would it be? ***    Tell your PLANS from now till you die. ***  Say what you’d like to those gathered at your birthday. ***    Return to the present.  Open your eyes; make eye contact with me. Trade roles with me; take me through the cue sequence. RETHINK THIS YEAR  What happened this year?  What did you get into and how did it affect you?  Tell the story, the sequence of EVENTS–personal, social and political.  What main CHOICES did you make this year?   How did these choices affect your Inner Child?  Your other subs?  Who were your most important PEOPLE this year?  Picture or think about each person who loomed large in your year.  Say how you got along with each.  Who was your CLOSEST PERSON?  What did you share this year?  Discuss your HEALTH this year.  Describe how you exercise, eat and do substances.  What INNER EXPERIENCES did you have and what did they teach you?  Share meaningful dreams, visions, or IMAGES you got this year.  Which VOICES (subs) have you heard from this year?   Say five THINGS YOU LEARNED this year. Visualize, feel your emotions toward, and list the names of people and animals important in this chapter of your life.  Draw a star  next to the names of PEOPLE WHO INSPIRED you.  Write a sentence after each name, say how you get along the person named.  After each name, note ANGER, QUARRELS, FIGHTS, LOVING, SEXUAL or other intense feelings with each person on your list. EXPRESS...

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Celebrate Sacred Sexuality Playshop/Seminar ~ October 27-29, 2017 ~ Austin, TX

»Posted by on Aug 25, 2017 in Celebrate Sacred Sexuality, Chakras, Classes, Counseling, Education, Events, Relationships, Sexuality, Tantra, Workshops | 0 comments

Celebrate Sacred Sexuality Playshop/Seminar ~ October 27-29, 2017 ~ Austin, TX

Questions Call 808-244-4103.  Email schooloftantra@gmail.com Location: Live Oak Unitarian Univeraslist Church, 3315 El Salido Parkway, Cedar Park, TX (Austin area) Register http://www.ecstatichearts.com/tantra/empowerment”>http://www.ecstatichearts.com/tantra/empowerment TANTRA for ALL CHAKRAS guides you through experiences that help you: * Love each other more and better * Open your energy vortexes (chakras) to each other * Share your diverse inner-voices * Learn what hurts and scares your Inner Kids * Discern when to lower your subself shields * Share vulnerability and connect with each other * Synergize your inner selves’ dance within and between you * Refine how you relate * Heal each other’s hearts * Encourage female ejaculation * Master male ejaculatory control   Come Explore the Dynamic Combination of Tantric Empowerment! By School of Tantra’s Dr. Sasha and Janet with Ecstatic Hearts’ Melanie and Scott Two amazing weekends in a combo package that has never been offered before. You may sign up for either individually. However, they complement each other so nicely, we decided to give you an even deeper discount if you do them together. REGISTER for BOTH Today and SAVE !   Celebrate Sacred Sexuality Dr. Sasha Alex Lessin Janet Kira Lessin School of Tantra October 27-29, 2017 Singles and couples of all sexual orientations are welcome. Benefits of the Sacred Sexuality Celebration Increase your ability to be sexy, powerful, loving, vulnerable, and spiritual. Experience fun interactive tantric rituals that delight and inspire. Discover new ways to create and receive deep intimate connection. Open chakras of the Inner Child, Sexy Self, Hero, Lover, Seer and Divine. Practice advanced communication skills for recognition and acceptance. Explore ways of dramatically improving your relationships and love life. Facilitators: Sasha and Janet Sasha Lessin, Ph.D., Dean, School of Tantra & Janet Kira Lessin, Professor of Tantric Studies. Authors of Tantra for All Chakras by the Lessins, at Amazon.com. Their website is http://schooloftantra.com To sample How the Lessins’ All Chakra Tantra works in a relationship, listen to http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/230-expanded-lovemaking/episodes/3493-sharing-bliss-chakra-lovemaking-dr-sasha October 27-29, 2017 Fri. 7:30pm-10:30pm, Sat. 10am-8pm, Sun. 10am–7pm Venue: Live Oak Unitarian Universalist Church, 3315 El Salido Pkwy, Cedar Park TX Price $995, Discounted to $595pp. Early Bird price prior to 8/15 is $395. Night Owl price between 8/16 and 9/30 is $495. Click Here to register JUST for Sacred Sexuality Celebration Sexual Empowerment Transformational Weekend by Ecstatic Hearts TM November 3-5, 2017 Singles and couples of all sexual orientations are welcome. Benefits of Sexual Empowerment  Become Sexier: average increase of participants is over 24%. Own Your Sexiness, fully embrace who you are as a sexual being. Create your ideal love life with confidence and vision. Free yourself from shame, guilt, trauma, and fear. Increase the passion and romance in your relationship/s. Discover and unburden yourself of unconscious beliefs holding you back. Unleash your sexual power, with new levels of energy and excitement. Facilitators: Melanie and Scott McClure Happily married and practicing Tantra together for 9 years. Founders of Ecstatic Hearts. Scott is a best-selling author featured in two films. Both were recently featured on the Learning Channel. They have taught over a thousand people internationally how to have truly extraordinary love lives and to live ecstatically. November 3-5, 2017 Fri. 7:30pm-11pm, Sat. 10am-11pm, Sun. 10am–8pm  Venue: Live Oak Unitarian Universalist Church, 3315 El Salido Pkwy, Cedar Park TX Price $995, Discounted to $595pp. Early Bird price prior to 8/15 is $395. Night Owl price between 8/16 and 9/30 is $495. Click Here to register JUST for Sexual Empowerment Combo Package Pricing Get both amazing weekends for the deeply discounted price $1990 of only $895. Even Better, the Early Bird Price if purchased prior to 9/30/2017 is just $795. Act now as we don’t know how quickly this unprecedented event will sell out. Click Here to REGISTER for BOTH Today and SAVE! In addition, during the week between these classes, you will have the opportunity to have personalized coaching sessions with Sasha and Janet to take your love life to the next level. If interested in this please contact Janet at ……. For more information Contact Melanie at 512-968-1033 or at texastantrika@gmail.com Thank you for taking this amazing step into your future! Cancellation Policy: Registrations are per person, non-refundable, and non-transferable. Ask for more details. Please contact us with any questions, or concerns about this...

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Tantra Gift of the Gods to Maximize Co-Creation of Existence: Internet Radio with Janet Kira Lessin, Articles too

»Posted by on May 18, 2013 in All-Chakra Tantra, Aquarian Radio, Books, Certification Program, Chakras, Education, History, Love, Radio, Relationships, Sexuality, Spirituality, Tantra | 0 comments

Tantra Gift of the Gods to Maximize Co-Creation of Existence: Internet Radio with Janet Kira Lessin, Articles too

Tantra is an ancient spiritual practice that originates from space. Ancient aliens who colonized the Earth 450,000 years ago bought tantra from the planet Nibiru and practiced tantra to maximize conception and bring into physicality from higher dimensions souls of advanced capabilities in order to advance civilization and culture and maximize chances for their species’ survival. It was through these tantric practices that Enki, a brilliant scientist and spiritually advanced soul, and Ninmah, a goddess of divine love who would become the main counselor, diplomat and primary peacekeeper for the Anunnaki came through the seed of Anu and his concubines from the Galzu, a species from the angelic realm of existence.         Click the arrow for a dynamic radio expo: Tantra allows species to awaken kundalini and reconnect souls to their higher awareness of their universal role at the appropriate time for the individual after they’ve reach a point in their lives when it’s time for them to remember. All beings come through the veil.of forgetfulness when incarnating into third dimensional form in order to fully engage in this dimension, which is called life, and fully participate in this program. This program, which is the Earth matrix, is a subroutine matrix of the primary matrix, which is the Solaris Solar system matrix, which is twin system with the Nemesis solar system.   In higher levels of awareness souls feel one another fully because density is less, form is more permeable and we continually merge mind and form, thus are able to understand each other better. We exist more as group mind, hive mind like bees and ants. We are telepathic. Thoughts are read and understood immediately so we respond immediately and know our oneness.   We agreed to experience separation in order to create life that is individualistic. This experiment has resulted in more diversity. The original polarity was self and not self which perpetuated exponentially creating the continuum and all that is. At first we played with negative emotions and began by not liking things about the apparent others we created in the “self, not-self” polarity game.   We began with negative emotions and thoughts which gradually became the ability to hurt the other, first emotionally then as we traveled deeper into form and density, we could hit then eventually kill one another, We’ve been killing ever sense in an ever expanding variety of ways, starting with killing one, than many, and eventually ending with mass weapons of destruction, like nuclear weapons, and other weapons, the likes of which not yet seen on this planet but in existence in the universe.   The Earth has been quarantined so that we may not take nukes into space and not contaminate other worlds, but also so that this planet with it’s extreme diversity of species is protected from the planet killer species that exist out there in the galaxy/universe.   The experiment is about complete and we’ve rounded the corner and are returning to higher densities where the illusion of separateness is less intense. We will now love each other more because form is less dense and we feel each other more thus we have more compassion and empathy for one another. We have paid our dues as a species and the experiment in density and separation will continue in other places. Humanity deserves a vacation of sorts and will now join the Federation of Planets with higher culture and civilization and take a vacation from extreme violence.   Those who wish to accelerate awareness can do so with tantra, a spiritual practice that’s fully experiential and gives you direct access to Source, awareness of the others self, those parts of you incarnated in other bodies by allowing you to move past your skin encapsulated sense of form and separate self sense. You feel separate because flesh is dense. Your light body is permeable and allows you to merge, feel your loving oneness and transcend physicality to remember your natural state of loving oneness with all creation.   When you merge with another through the lovemaking process, activate all your energy centers (chakras), awaken your kundalini (like plugging in to the cosmos), you eventually remember it all. The process feels electrical, like pure pleasure currents running through your bodies. You may not accomplish a kundalini awakening while incarnated. It all depends on how advanced you are as a soul.   Tantra is for all, novice to advanced, for tantra allows souls incarnated in flesh a time out, a break from density so they might recharge. Tantra helps them accelerate their personal growth and awakening and activate consciousness for all incarnated on the...

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ANAL SEX by David J. Ley, Ph.D. in Psychology Today

»Posted by on May 8, 2013 in Love, Sexuality | 0 comments

What is with the male fascination with heterosexual anal sex, anyway? Men seem to fantasize obsessively about anal sex, hundreds of porn movies are made every year that fetishize anal sex, and women everywhere debate whether they should or shouldn’t have anal sex with their boyfriend or husband, while men discuss how to convince their female partners to give it a try. When women do have anal sex, the overwhelming majority, do so at the request of their male partner.So, why? What does anal sex mean? . Heterosexual anal sex has been around for millennia. Paintings and etchings from Japan, China and Europe all depict men performing anal sex on women, as do ancient erotic drawings, sculpture and pottery from the Mediterranean and South America. In some Polynesian cultures, anal sex was practiced explicitly as a means of birth control. Today, some adolescents regard anal sex as a means to prevent conception, regardless of increased risks for transmission of sexually transmitted diseases. Over the past decades, heterosexual anal sex rates have climbed. In the Fifties, anal sex was reported by fewer than fifteen percent of the population. . Modern overall rates suggest that around a third of men have performed anal sex on a woman, and slightly fewer women have received anal sex. . The rates are still higher in sexually active adult in their twenties. . But, for married and committed couples, where disease and pregnancy aren’t a significant concern, how can we explain the prevalence of the male fascination with anal sex? Men are sexually interested by variety, but aside from this, there is no relevant evolutionary argument, as anal sex of course produces no heirs. . Anal sex, and a desire for anal sex, serves different purposes for men. The strongest, and most common argument that men voice, is that a woman who will engage in anal sex is inherently arousing to a man. Such a woman, in embracing anal sex, is embracing it with no intent or possible result of pregnancy – it is sex, at its rawest. . For a man, anal sex with a woman is her allowing him to play Star Trek, and venture into uncharted territory. Even if it is not where no man has gone before, it is still something novel, ncommon, and special in its rarity. A woman engaging in anal sex shows her desire and willingness to have sex in a purely physical way, with no thought of pregnancy. She is embracing, to some degree, a willingness to make her body a sexual object. Some research suggests that women who engage in anal sex report having more orgasms, not necessarily during anal sex alone, but in their overall levels of sexual activity. The overall conclusions are that the women who are willing to engage in anal sex tend to be more adventurous, more sensual, more relaxed in bed, and thus, more orgasmic. . A woman willing to engage in anal sex is giving her mate something special, rare and uncommon. . The degree of pain in anal sex is a mixed issue. In some relationships where bondage and discipline factors play a role, the pain a woman might experience in anal sex is part of the allure. For others, men and women often work carefully to decrease any pain, using lubricants and preparation, to increase comfort, and pleasure for both parties. This preparation and work, the special attention to preparation, serves as an intense form of foreplay, heightening excitement, extending the sexuality and sensuousness of the encounter, and, not incidentally, increasing the chances that the woman will have an orgasm, through the extended foreplay and stimulation. . For many men and women, anal sex is seen as a form of “gift” from the woman, given out of love and regard, and wanting to give him something special and rare. When a woman is willing to engage in anal sex with her lover, it is usually coming from a place of significant trust and love of her male partner. . Some people see a man having anal sex with a woman as a form of dominance, where the man is “having every part of her body. ” The “flavor” of dominance, and misogyny, plays out in the current (disturbing) porn phenomena of “Ass to Mouth,” where a man puts his penis in the mouth of a woman, after performing anal sex on her. However, in most porn, the women are portrayed as the fantasy women who are always ready, always hot, always excited, and always willing. . Another way of viewing this is that the actresses are expressing and displaying their willingness to violate any and all taboos, no matter how “distasteful,” because of how aroused they have become, rather than an expression of female degradation. . Surprisingly large numbers of people don’t regard anal sex as actual sex. Some studies suggest that as many as 19% of college students view anal sex as less intimate, less committed, and...

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