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Tantra Gift of the Gods to Maximize Co-Creation of Existence: Internet Radio with Janet Kira Lessin, Articles too

»Posted by on May 18, 2013 in All-Chakra Tantra, Aquarian Radio, Books, Certification Program, Chakras, Education, History, Love, Radio, Relationships, Sexuality, Spirituality, Tantra | 0 comments

Tantra Gift of the Gods to Maximize Co-Creation of Existence: Internet Radio with Janet Kira Lessin, Articles too

Tantra is an ancient spiritual practice that originates from space. Ancient aliens who colonized the Earth 450,000 years ago bought tantra from the planet Nibiru and practiced tantra to maximize conception and bring into physicality from higher dimensions souls of advanced capabilities in order to advance civilization and culture and maximize chances for their species’ survival. It was through these tantric practices that Enki, a brilliant scientist and spiritually advanced soul, and Ninmah, a goddess of divine love who would become the main counselor, diplomat and primary peacekeeper for the Anunnaki came through the seed of Anu and his concubines from the Galzu, a species from the angelic realm of existence.         Click the arrow for a dynamic radio expo: Tantra allows species to awaken kundalini and reconnect souls to their higher awareness of their universal role at the appropriate time for the individual after they’ve reach a point in their lives when it’s time for them to remember. All beings come through the veil.of forgetfulness when incarnating into third dimensional form in order to fully engage in this dimension, which is called life, and fully participate in this program. This program, which is the Earth matrix, is a subroutine matrix of the primary matrix, which is the Solaris Solar system matrix, which is twin system with the Nemesis solar system.   In higher levels of awareness souls feel one another fully because density is less, form is more permeable and we continually merge mind and form, thus are able to understand each other better. We exist more as group mind, hive mind like bees and ants. We are telepathic. Thoughts are read and understood immediately so we respond immediately and know our oneness.   We agreed to experience separation in order to create life that is individualistic. This experiment has resulted in more diversity. The original polarity was self and not self which perpetuated exponentially creating the continuum and all that is. At first we played with negative emotions and began by not liking things about the apparent others we created in the “self, not-self” polarity game.   We began with negative emotions and thoughts which gradually became the ability to hurt the other, first emotionally then as we traveled deeper into form and density, we could hit then eventually kill one another, We’ve been killing ever sense in an ever expanding variety of ways, starting with killing one, than many, and eventually ending with mass weapons of destruction, like nuclear weapons, and other weapons, the likes of which not yet seen on this planet but in existence in the universe.   The Earth has been quarantined so that we may not take nukes into space and not contaminate other worlds, but also so that this planet with it’s extreme diversity of species is protected from the planet killer species that exist out there in the galaxy/universe.   The experiment is about complete and we’ve rounded the corner and are returning to higher densities where the illusion of separateness is less intense. We will now love each other more because form is less dense and we feel each other more thus we have more compassion and empathy for one another. We have paid our dues as a species and the experiment in density and separation will continue in other places. Humanity deserves a vacation of sorts and will now join the Federation of Planets with higher culture and civilization and take a vacation from extreme violence.   Those who wish to accelerate awareness can do so with tantra, a spiritual practice that’s fully experiential and gives you direct access to Source, awareness of the others self, those parts of you incarnated in other bodies by allowing you to move past your skin encapsulated sense of form and separate self sense. You feel separate because flesh is dense. Your light body is permeable and allows you to merge, feel your loving oneness and transcend physicality to remember your natural state of loving oneness with all creation.   When you merge with another through the lovemaking process, activate all your energy centers (chakras), awaken your kundalini (like plugging in to the cosmos), you eventually remember it all. The process feels electrical, like pure pleasure currents running through your bodies. You may not accomplish a kundalini awakening while incarnated. It all depends on how advanced you are as a soul.   Tantra is for all, novice to advanced, for tantra allows souls incarnated in flesh a time out, a break from density so they might recharge. Tantra helps them accelerate their personal growth and awakening and activate consciousness for all incarnated on the...

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ANAL SEX by David J. Ley, Ph.D. in Psychology Today

»Posted by on May 8, 2013 in Love, Sexuality | 0 comments

What is with the male fascination with heterosexual anal sex, anyway? Men seem to fantasize obsessively about anal sex, hundreds of porn movies are made every year that fetishize anal sex, and women everywhere debate whether they should or shouldn’t have anal sex with their boyfriend or husband, while men discuss how to convince their female partners to give it a try. When women do have anal sex, the overwhelming majority, do so at the request of their male partner.So, why? What does anal sex mean? . Heterosexual anal sex has been around for millennia. Paintings and etchings from Japan, China and Europe all depict men performing anal sex on women, as do ancient erotic drawings, sculpture and pottery from the Mediterranean and South America. In some Polynesian cultures, anal sex was practiced explicitly as a means of birth control. Today, some adolescents regard anal sex as a means to prevent conception, regardless of increased risks for transmission of sexually transmitted diseases. Over the past decades, heterosexual anal sex rates have climbed. In the Fifties, anal sex was reported by fewer than fifteen percent of the population. . Modern overall rates suggest that around a third of men have performed anal sex on a woman, and slightly fewer women have received anal sex. . The rates are still higher in sexually active adult in their twenties. . But, for married and committed couples, where disease and pregnancy aren’t a significant concern, how can we explain the prevalence of the male fascination with anal sex? Men are sexually interested by variety, but aside from this, there is no relevant evolutionary argument, as anal sex of course produces no heirs. . Anal sex, and a desire for anal sex, serves different purposes for men. The strongest, and most common argument that men voice, is that a woman who will engage in anal sex is inherently arousing to a man. Such a woman, in embracing anal sex, is embracing it with no intent or possible result of pregnancy – it is sex, at its rawest. . For a man, anal sex with a woman is her allowing him to play Star Trek, and venture into uncharted territory. Even if it is not where no man has gone before, it is still something novel, ncommon, and special in its rarity. A woman engaging in anal sex shows her desire and willingness to have sex in a purely physical way, with no thought of pregnancy. She is embracing, to some degree, a willingness to make her body a sexual object. Some research suggests that women who engage in anal sex report having more orgasms, not necessarily during anal sex alone, but in their overall levels of sexual activity. The overall conclusions are that the women who are willing to engage in anal sex tend to be more adventurous, more sensual, more relaxed in bed, and thus, more orgasmic. . A woman willing to engage in anal sex is giving her mate something special, rare and uncommon. . The degree of pain in anal sex is a mixed issue. In some relationships where bondage and discipline factors play a role, the pain a woman might experience in anal sex is part of the allure. For others, men and women often work carefully to decrease any pain, using lubricants and preparation, to increase comfort, and pleasure for both parties. This preparation and work, the special attention to preparation, serves as an intense form of foreplay, heightening excitement, extending the sexuality and sensuousness of the encounter, and, not incidentally, increasing the chances that the woman will have an orgasm, through the extended foreplay and stimulation. . For many men and women, anal sex is seen as a form of “gift” from the woman, given out of love and regard, and wanting to give him something special and rare. When a woman is willing to engage in anal sex with her lover, it is usually coming from a place of significant trust and love of her male partner. . Some people see a man having anal sex with a woman as a form of dominance, where the man is “having every part of her body. ” The “flavor” of dominance, and misogyny, plays out in the current (disturbing) porn phenomena of “Ass to Mouth,” where a man puts his penis in the mouth of a woman, after performing anal sex on her. However, in most porn, the women are portrayed as the fantasy women who are always ready, always hot, always excited, and always willing. . Another way of viewing this is that the actresses are expressing and displaying their willingness to violate any and all taboos, no matter how “distasteful,” because of how aroused they have become, rather than an expression of female degradation. . Surprisingly large numbers of people don’t regard anal sex as actual sex. Some studies suggest that as many as 19% of college students view anal sex as less intimate, less committed, and...

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MERGE WITH LOVERS; DISSOLVE SEPARATENESS ILLUSION: Keyes youtubes, Lessin Article, Do-It-With Partners Exercise

»Posted by on Mar 10, 2013 in Articles, Love, Relationships | 1 comment

MERGE WITH LOVERS; DISSOLVE SEPARATENESS ILLUSION: Keyes youtubes, Lessin Article, Do-It-With Partners Exercise

by Sasha Lessin, Ph.D., Dean, School of Tantra www.schooloftantra.net Heed what’s hard handling your honeys. Difficulties handling them expose your expectations that they’ll do what you want or forgo what you forbid.   But when you need your mates to make you happy, you produce pain. Sometimes you get your way, but sometimes you don’t. Why upset yourself over it?   Defeat your addictions–rigid conditioning that makes you hurt and angry. Addictions are hopes that hurt. They dictate how you and your darlings must relate for you to feel fulfilled.]   Replace your addictive demands with preferences. Get what you prefer and you smile. And if you don’t get what you prefer, you don’t cry. Preferences are wants which, when unmet, don’t make you moan.   IF YOUR PRECIOUS PEOPLE WON’T PERFORM AS YOU PREFER, PLEASE YOURSELF AND STILL APPRECIATE THEM   END SUFFERING: UPLEVEL ADDICTIVE DEMANDS TO PREFERENCES   1) Love is eternal, involvement, negotiable. Love your lovers forever, celebrate what you’ve shared. Wish them well and good-loving with whomever they connect, whether or not they keep connecting with you at the level and with the quality you want. You and they blessed each other, facilitated each other’s progress and development in life’s learning. Shower lovers past with appreciations and put your efforts into your currently active loves.   2) Uplevel addictive involvement–that which makes you suffer if you lack the contact you desire–to preference. If your attachment to a certain form of contact (regular alone time with a certain lover) hurts when you do not get it, transform that addictive demand (she must spend a certain amount and quality of 1×1 time with me) to a preference (I’m ok, in fact, quite happy, whether she does or does not spend time with me). Just keep telling your truth without blame or judgement to all concerned and enjoy what you’ve got, don’t sweat what you’ve not.   3) Reprogram the subself within you that perseveres in addictive behavior; find out when it came into your life, how it served you then, what it has done throughout the years to protect your vulnerability and what its interest is in holding on to the current diminishing relationship. Seriously consider other, more ecologically homoeostatic means of meeting the needs of this persevering subself’s addictive demands.   4) Never regard yourself as a second-class human, who must always defer to others’ needs. You’re sovereign; you must make yourself happy. Empathize with your own emotions, analyze your needs, make loving requests of those who care about you, requests that, if lovingly met, meet your needs. As much as possible, meet your own needs and experience the joy that attracts others to you.   MERGE WITH LOVERS; DISSOLVE SEPARATENESS ILLUSION   Here’s an exercise to do with each of your lovers. Do it and you and they’ll feel your oneness.   Sit with a partner. Maintain eye contact. Don’t touch.   Tell her or him, “I feel separateness from you when I say to myself … (specify all of the rational and irrational, serious and trivial, crazy and stupid and clear and astute things you say to yourself that make you feel separate from her or him.) Exhaust your list.   Your partner sits calmly and says, “Thank you” after each separation you enumerate.   Then have your partner tell you, “I feel separateness from you when I tell myself….” Encourage your partner to exhaust her or his separatenesses: calmly say “Thank you” for each.   Then join hands. Tell your partner, “I feel oneness with you when I tell myself ... (complete with all the things you tell yourself which make you feel close to your partner..) Reverse roles. Discuss your experience with this exercise.   When you raise your consciousness to the dyadic level you still keep your bodymind awareness, your distinct personality and your inner voices, should you choose to temporarily identify with them.   When you and your significant other expand consciousness of yourselves to internalize each others’ wisdom and concerns, you are on the dyadic level of consciousness. The energy, richness, complexity and awareness the two of you share exceeds the sum of both your individual bodymind energies and aware nesses. Your couple synergy is enhanced when you use your relationship so each of you grows and has more to give to the relationship as well.   Ken Keyes provided an excellent model for such synergistic dyadic consciousness. [Keyes, K., Handbook to Higher Consciousness, 5th Edition,: Living Love, 1979 and A Conscious Person’s Guide to Relationships, Kentucky: Living Love, 1979.]  Keyes says to welcome upsets in your relationship. You can use upsets to raise your consciousness....

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TANTRA TEACHER vs DETRACTORS a funny but instructive youtube

»Posted by on Feb 20, 2013 in Articles, Chakras, Classes, Love, Polyamory, Relationships, Sexuality, Spirituality, Tantra, Traditional, Videos | 1 comment

TANTRA TEACHER vs DETRACTORS a funny but instructive youtube

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HOW TO REALLY LOVE A WOMAN: TANTRA DATE PHOTOS by Janet Kira Lessin

»Posted by on Feb 2, 2013 in Articles, Sexuality, Tantra | 0 comments

HOW TO REALLY LOVE A WOMAN: TANTRA DATE PHOTOS by Janet Kira Lessin Hubby Sasha and I are proud to bring the following photos to you. It took many years for me to be brave enough to allow them to be taken. However, I believe so firmly in the loving, healing path of tantra that I felt it is essential that this information get out to you and those in your life. These photos are taken from our best selling book, How to Really Love A Woman, which explains the first date in a series of tantra dates that we call Adore Aphrodite. We teach this technique at our Seminars and Tantra School. I hope you enjoy them. . Schedule your session today, click HERE. . Buy the Book, click HERE. . If you’re a minor, don’t click the link below: . http://www.schooloftantra.net/Photos/WomanTantraDatePhotos.htm . FOUR TANTRIC TRYSTS guides you as Giver as you adore and nurture a female lover–your Receiver. You show her she can trust you as her healer. You help her heal herself and adopt strategies to love wisely and expand her sexual ecstacy. . When you’ve trysted tantrically, you love each other more and better. . In Tantra Tryst 1, Activate Your Chakras, you open your energy vortexes (chakras) to each other. You share your diverse inner-voices. Learn, in this tryst, what hurts and scares your Inner Kids. See how you grew subselves to block pain and fear. You discern when to lower your subself shields, share vulnerability and connect with each other. You synergize your inner selves’ dance within and between you. . In Tryst 2, Reprogram Her Parental Imprints, you help your Receiver escape the automatic limits her rearers and culture inculcated. Then she reacts to you as you, not as a stand-in for a parent. . Tryst 3, Refine How You Relate, you guide her through exercises to refine how you and she relate. You establish the trust you need to nurture, adore, delight and worship her so she can safely express everything to you. . Tryst 4, Heal Her Heart, Encourage Her Ejaculation, you touch her vagina inside and trigger repressed, suppressed and under-expressed pain she expresses as you touch, pain that blocks her full sexual sensuality and inhibits ejaculatory orgasms. You help her express pain and release her blocks so she can, when she chooses, ejaculate. You stroke her inner clitoris and urethral sponge till she ejaculates and rises to new delight heights. . Available in Hardcover, Paperback and Kindle from...

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LESSONS LEARNED WITH PAST LOVERS APPLY NOW: Tantra School, Part 3, Web Radio, Article

»Posted by on Jan 13, 2013 in All-Chakra Tantra, Aquarian Radio, History, Love, Radio, Relationships, Sexuality, Spirituality, Tantra | 0 comments

Listen to internet radio with Aquarian Radio  on Blog Talk Radio Click link above for radio show, where Janet Lessin shows you how to use the cues below, then try it yourself with a partner.   LESSONS LEARNED WITH PAST LOVERS APPLY NOW by Sasha Lessin, Ph.D., Dean, School of Tantra www.schooloftantra.com   LOOK AT EACH OF YOUR LOVERS’ LOVES: Review What they Learned   Invite a lover to review lovers from the past.  Alternately, take a non-lover of yours through the cue sequence below. Say the review will help her or him better current relationships. Look at the events, sexual and emotional sharing in each of her or his prior pairings. Review the developmental tasks s/he worked on in the relationships and note what s/he and they learned from being together. Then she sees how s/he can apply what s/he learned to you or, if you are facilitating a person who’s not your lover, how s/he can apply what s/he learned to her or his current loves.   Lie on your back. Relax. Close your eyes.   Feel your genitals–your sexual chakra; notice your heart, your love chakra.   Reconsider your lovers–the significant ones-from days gone. Tell me their names, I’ll write them.  Lover 1 [Write it] Lover 2 Lover 3 Lover 4 Lover 5 Etc.   For each lover listed, Tell me the YEARS you were involved and how old you were,  [Write them next to the names indicated]   Say where you were when you related to this lover the key EVENTS in your relationship [Take notes next to the names indicated].   Tell me your EMOTIONAL AND SEXUAL SHARING with each.   Tell the DEVELOPMENTAL TASKS YOU COMPLETED with each.   Summarize the events, sexual and emotional sharing and the developmental tasks we’ve experienced together.    Imagine [Lover 1: Say name] is before you. Toward him or her, express your LONGINGS, what you wished you could have shared with him or her .   Express to him or her any WITHHELD FEELINGS, things you didn’t get to say.   Tell him or her your RESENTMENTS.   As you imagine him or her before you, tell him or her your DEMANDS, what you really wanted from him or her .   Say, to him or her, your APPRECIATIONS    Tell him or her what you REGRET. Say what you FORGIVE him or her for.   What subselves, inner voices or attitudes did you develop as a result of this relationship?   Tell [Lover 1: Say his or her name] WHAT YOU LEARNED from being together.    FORGIVE YOURSELF aloud for not doing better.    Bid him or her FAREWELL.    How, if you had it to do over, would you DO BETTER in the relationship with [Lover 1: Say his or her name]?    How can you apply that improvement to your relationship with me?   [or with your current lovers] ***************************************************************************** LOVER 2 Imagine [Lover 2: Say his or her name] is before you. Toward him or her, express your LONGINGS, what you wished you could have shared with him or her.     Express toward [Lover 2] any WITHELD FEELINGS, things you didn’t get to say fully   Tell him or her your RESENTMENTS    As you imagine she or he before you, tell him or her your DEMANDS, what you really wanted from him or her.   Say, to him or her, your APPRECIATIONS    Tell him or her what you REGRET. Tell him or her what you FORGIVE him or her for.   What subselves, inner voices or attitudes did you develop as a result of this relationship?   Tell [Lover 2: Say his or her name] WHAT YOU LEARNED from being him or her.   FORGIVE YOURSELF aloud for not doing better.    Bid him or her FAREWELL.    How, if you had it to do over, would you DO BETTER in the relationship with [Lover 2: Say his or her name]?   How can you apply that improvement to your relationship with me/a lover [select appropriate object]?   LOVERS 3 – N : CONTINUE QUESTIONS ABOVE FOR LOVERS 1 & 2 FOR EACH OF ADDITIONAL MAJOR LOVE.   Let us know on this site or schooloftanta@aol.com how this exercise affected you and your current relationship....

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